Hi Raid Leaders,
If you are a raid leader, and you keep getting fed up by mistakes that players make in a raid/pug group. Please take a break. Or have someone take over lead within the raid group, anything to keep the raid going, that is what a raid leader does right? If you RO and leave after just a few attempts, that's a bad call!
Socialize, have fun, let it go, why tear everything down for simple mistakes, can't rely on everyone, at all times, we are people, but being leader and call everyone ******ed multiple times, kicking people for small reasons, raising your voice, while 24 other people are listening just makes it all even more difficult you know. It ruins the vibe for all the 24 other people.
Please, do not lead a raid, if you are not comfortable with it, it comes of the costs of other players as well you know. There should be zero tension. And if there is tension, the leader should deal with it, think problem solving, to keep the raid going, instead of building up the tension. Break the ice!
Pug group is pug group, be prepared for the worst, new guild members make mistakes as well, give them time, don't bash them to the ground, deal with it in a humane and mature way, you don't have to kick people out(build up Guild legacy), rather have them stay as social and give them a chance some other time, whenever they feel ready for it, you don't have to play nanny and hold hands, I get it, but this game is also a place for people to escape reality, and have fun, in this great community, we are people as well, and all should be treated with respect and kindness, some actually come here for just that. To just play the game, talk about the game and have fun, not why someone is behaving differently, or think differently, just align yourself with the players and focus on just the game, and your snacks, and your drinks and that you pee and poo before the raid starts, smoke a doobie, drink a bud, put on the heavy metal mix, club, vice city(flash fm), you know where i'm going with this!
I just wanted to share this message, hoping that some will read it, and take it in account whenever they will host a raid again, or work on teambuilding with their guild.
Thank you for reading.
Regards,
Xuji