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Right, you're not complaining about receiving a gift... you're just complaining you didn't receive the gift you "counted" on and considering that not receiving a gift anymore would be labelable as...

You're not being rewarded. You're receiving a gift.
And people wonder why my opinion is there should just be no more gifts.

Yes, you are. Because then you aren't wanting to donate and receive gifts at the end of the year that may or may not be related to your donations, you are wanting to "invest" expecting "interest."

And vice-versa.