Regarding the 'friendly message' bit, this describes your, to reiterate, ****post very well
Although I'd describe it as lowkey salty af
No, I'm not one of them. I'm clearly not allowed to have an opinion in your little pink lens and you instantly count me as a threat. Moreover, your post simply proves my point that you try to project your problems onto others (as a defence mechanism -- this is a friendly post, after all), which leads me to this question: how old were you when your father left?
P.S. I know I shouldn't feed you, but I'm in a good mood rn, so knock yourself out while I'm here