first of, Sticks and stones.
Secondly, there is all the reason for lord players to be pissed at the donors when we did not sign up for pay2win, of course it's not their fault but it creates an unfair atmosphere and people are bound to lash out. I personally don't feel the effect of the donors all that much, being a full wf player, and it really shows some donors are inexperienced and don't deserve the gear they have, i mean when a dk could kill a smourne pally+2 rogues in 3v1 it's really less about the skill of the dk, and more about the noob play by the other 3 players. :D (yes it happened and it was fairly easy!:))
But even with the wf gear, i dont have the offsets the donors have, so some that play decent give me hard time sometimes which was not that often before crossrealms. So i can imagine being a gearing pvper and getting my *** handed to me by no talent people with bis gear and it is an understandable frustration. The bitterness is mostly about the unfairness of the situation in terms of working for your gear, and lord players being forced to it with no say in it.
Crossrealm has some upsides and some downsides for lord players, i made my peace with it, but i wouldn't miss it that much if it's cancelled either. But i will reiterate: sticks and stones! Also cut some slack to fellow lordies, their frustration is not without reason.