No, the "problem brought to light" as far as I can tell is a wording/semantics one. The rules talk about "off-spec," as it's the term players use when talking about rolling for someone that isn't your role (no one asks to roll "off-role," all use OS when meaning something for a role they aren't playing), and that seems to have confused some.
If you need an item, you play the role it is for - or try your luck using Need, get reported and banned. Any case is a legitimate grievance, as you're the one breaking the rules. Even if the person is going to disenchant or delete the item to spite you, yes,