Hey Kill3rism
That is EXACTLY what happens to me, to the very last detail. Everyday I'm greeted with the familiar "success" message just as you described. Fortunately for you I've discovered a work around: a Virtual Private Network (VPN).
I use CyberGhost's FREE VPN software (
http://www.cyberghostvpn.com). Download this and you'll never see that "success" message again. There is one drawback though; by using a VPN you're actually extending the 'travel time' of the data itself, therefore you'll get more latency. I always get around 110ms normally, but expect an increase of 100ms when using the software so you're left with 210ms. I'd take that any day. And yes, you can turn the VPN on and off by pressing a simple button. Easy.
I don't always use p2p services that often, but I found I needed to download large amount of files recently and I also started to notice my torrents behaving strangely. I also get that "connecting to peers" message. I'm almost sure that's MWEB trying to eliminate people from hogging the system by downloading during peak hours (i.e daytime), and I think that's beyond our control.
It's well known that ISPs limit everybody's bandwidth during peak hours, when the load is heavy, and restore our normal speed during normal hours. That is why we're getting lag (or more of it) between 8pm and 10pm.
I hope this was of any use to you.
Regards
Supremacist.