Those 3 points are what we are talking about, and its the most important for the server to maintain a equal setting for everyone who joins it, may it be donor or non-donor. Staff has already figured out how to maintain the server, and that is by selling gear. What me and a lot of others has been trying to say is that there need to be a way to make sure that once u reach lvl 60-70-80, u cant just go into the store and become realms first by credit-card. Ofc these guys should be able to get gear. It just a question about what gear they should be able to get so they dont get to far ahead of the others. Its still a x1 realm, so gearing up will take a long time for most ppl.
I believe that upgrading gear is out of the question and instead put a achievement-block on the coin-shop to make sure that ppl have to work their way up to that point in the game where they can get these items either with effort and grinding, or buy them if they rather do that. That would be equal, and it would make sure that non-donors have a higher chance at getting that item next run since the donor bought it after last raid.
The staff wants suggestions and feedback. They have said so themselves. Bashing others cos your opinion about their suggestions is fukked up aint nice. Your words mean nothing since u dont contribute in any way. Instead you could come up with something others might not have thought about, that would make donations be worthwhile.