GS cancer, ilvl cancer, all the same - I fled from ragnaros where i was tired of half of pugs asking 5,8 k GS and KS title just to go to ICC normal, just to level mage on Cata to see people asking 370 - 380 ilvl just to be invited to RDF HC...:D And after hour of waiting in queue (apparently ilvl357 is too low for any forming RDF hc group), i ended in group with druid healer with 90% of feral gear - 3 wipes and disband, and second time in a group with dps geared tank, out aggroed in nearly each fight after third spell of my rotation. Slowed down my dps, removed food buff, just to see the progress - i am not dying first, but second, after healer gets aggro because of need to frenetically heal the tank with ctc maybe lower than mine....
Only way to avoid I see is a good big guild. Of course most of them accepts you only with 8000 GS or 500 ilvl anyway... So, we are doomed....:-D