Except, telling people how they should play the game isn't really acceptable. People will always play the game how they prefer, and Blizzard has endorsed this behavior since the game's inception. Yeah, I get that these things are the only sorts of things one *can* do, because the troublesome parts of the community just simply aren't going to listen, and there's no real way to get them to change. But that doesn't make their behavior OK, and that doesn't make the requirements to get around them OK.
If there's 500 threads about this, then obviously a LOT of people care. Other people have discussed it, sure. But who are you to say someone else is not allowed to have their opinion or input on the matter?
This sort of behavior right here is truly what is "disgusting". It's one thing to offer suggestions/advice, or even to help the person who is stating they are having a problem and would like some form of assistance. It's something completely different to accuse them of being "disgusting", troll them, and try to bait a reaction out of them simply because they are in a vulnerable position.
Shame on YOU.
@OP, unfortunately there's not a whole lot of solutions to this problem. Gear-wise, you have to gear up as much as possible through voting and farming emblems. You can get some tier 9 from EoTs and a few other items. I'd definitely recommend saving up vote points for a weapon. In time, you'll be able to get a 271 ilvl weapon. You should be able to push your gear over 5k if you put enough effort into it.
That said, I would recommend checking out the guild recruitment section of the ragnaros section here. See if there's any guilds that are doing ToC, or accepting lesser geared players. Keep an eye for guild advertisements in-game in global and trade chat, too.
Not a whole lot of guilds are very welcoming, though, unfortunately. Especially if you're on Alliance, which is why I don't play there anymore.
I'd recommend submitting an applicatoin to Desolation, and maybe even dropping a post in the guild thread here:
http://forum.warmane.com/showthread....4-H-Desolation
If you're active around 3-6 AM server time, then it may just be the raiding guild for you. Outside of that, we have players online regularly looking for pug raids. We need more people for sure, and we'd definitely like to have more Druids.
Right now, we're focusing on Light of Dawn progression (got him down to 15%!), and the guild in general is pretty friendly and loves to chill and joke around with each other. The ICC 25hc group isn't very easy to get into with low gear, since we're really pushing the progression and need more gear to push that as much as possible, but later on, it'll get easier to get into that.
We also regularly do 10 and 25 normal ICC's, with ToC being somewhat rare. But we definitely have people that would be willing to dungeons, VoA, ToC, etc. with you and bring you along to things throughout the day.
That said, I'd also would not mind helping you out getting some gear. You can contact me in-game with the names Lynea and Pinkstyle.