You can think about it, but this been your main issue, yes i don't think so. The fact you have to pick extreme example as ""people starving to dead" and compare it to Warmane queue, show bad your point is. Try replace "starving people" with "people waiting in lane to watch a movie" while you personally skip the lane and tell me how huge of a problem this is for you. Yes it sound like bunch of bull****.
Also I don't even understand what you asking for. There is more people that wanna play then server can handle, its as simple as that. Even if they remove the premium bonus to skip queue there will be still queue times. Warmane have choose to prioritize people who support the server via donations. Almost the same as IRL when you have to stay in lane to get in a Club, but there is VIP person who skip the lane. I can probably pick 100 more examples from IRL that work exactly the same way. It's been like that for 10 years, everyone know how this works and have make their own decisions to play here, and the server is still growing. There is no reason to change the system at all just because very few newcomers and kids whine about it in forums.
What if you log in early and during peak time you are already online and playing? I guess its possible to play after all hmm.
Also if you follow your logic about donation benefits they also have to remove their shop. That's not how donations work usually, even IRL you can get benefits for donating, like tax cuts for example.