I apologize if this is in the wrong board, this is my first time using the forums.
I was running heroic RDF on Icecrown, playing my Troll Resto Shaman with my friend running Feral Druid Tank. We got Pit of Sauron. The first problem that rose up was that Ick dropped his tanking trinket, and my friend needed on it (because his trinkets are garbage and it's a direct upgrade). The frost DK dps then also prpceeded to need on it, won the roll. I asked him if he could please give it to my friend, he isn't tanking, it's kind of a dick move to take a trinket that isn't for yout spec (especially because he had better trinekts anyway), he said no, I told him that if he doesnt, then my friend and I would leave and they would have to find a new tank and healer. He yelled at me, finally gave the trinket, and said he would report me for threatening him like that.
The second problem, we continue the dungeon, kill the final boss, and he drops his caster trinket (I'm sorry I can't remember the name, its the one that gives spellpower and has a crit CD on it). I need on it, the shadow priest needs on it, and I win it. The shadow priest then whispers me and says I am a ninja for taking a DPS trinket and that if I did not give it to him right now he would report me for ninja looting in a dungeon. For reference, i am wearing two ilevel 200 BLUE trinkets, one of which gives hit rating (which i really need to replace...)
I then tell him no, I need it, it's a direct upgrade to either of my trinket. He says its not for healers, if i don't give it to him he will report me and I will be banned for a week. I then get in a devate with him about what makes the trinket apecificly a dps trinket, bevause theres surely no hit rating on it. He claimed it had "crit hit rating", which healers don't need. To my understanding, critical "HIT" isn't mutually exclusive to attacks. Ultimately I tell him he isn't getting it, he then tells me that he will pay me for it, 100g, and I say no (especially since he was threatening to get me banned for needing on a trinket I actially NEED). He finally says that I am a ninja and that he will report me along with getting his guild to report me, and at this point I say "sure, whatever", and ignore him...
Sorry for the rambling, but I am curious. Am I in the wrong here? I figure I am not, and even if it was a caster dps trinket, if it was still better than any trinket I already had, is that a bannable offense in a dungeon???