All of what you both said i am and will be doing, and i certainly hope you're right. I am just not feeling it, perhaps i chose wrong faction, the alliance, since i opened this post up until now, to test it out, i have been sitting in Ring of Blood, watching many groups come and go, over 200 players, asking each and every one of them if they have got a spot for me, not a single one replied, did quest and left.
So what you both say sounds good on paper, and i CERTAINLY hope there are players who can even speak English in game at least, or love to fight and argue, unlike these 200 that just ignore you which is the worst.