Unstable connection

For 5 days now i keep trying to play the game at different times and all i get is DC's after 10sec- 3 min from logging in or major lag for 20 min then DC. except for yesterday after the scheduled restart it worked great, but again after the crash the dc frenzy came back an cant stay online for more that 2 min max. in previous topic a moderator said, try changing the login timing, but i have this problem all the time even when the server is low on population.

i tried 2 different ISP's ,2 different PC's, windows, Linux, even the WTFast program, and the problem is the same. also i removed a th firewall from the router disabled my Anti-Virus and no use

by the way my connection was very good 5 months ago but i start have lags from 7 pm - 12am every day for the past 5 months and i was trying to play even so, but now i cant even stay online

is there a solution or any thing i can do or is that it, we wait and just wait

thank you