deleted wrong character

Please please please help, I deleted the wrong character on accident I accidentally deleted a character purchased with coins. please help please

go to the restore character option under services. if you can't restore it from there than you're sol. be more careful next time.

you can restore it for Coins. From the website go into:
My Account > Services > Select Realm: Lordaeron > Select a Random "active" Character > Set Currency: Coins > Character Restoration

Now you should see a list of the characters you have deleted in the past 30 days

Open a Support ticket. With your case being quite out of the norm, you might have a shot at getting a one-time-only second chance.

i opened a support ticket on site, in game, and PM'd all the game masters, I hope i can get it back /:

Only the first one might have any use at all. Contacting GMs about it won't help in any way, since your issue is on your account, not in-game.

in realm list it says i have 2 characters, but only shows one at char select screen

how long does it usually take to get a response after you put in a ticket usually?