Can't connect to warnanes login server

Hello,
I am having a very difficult problem, for some reason i can't connect to warmane the game just stays on "connecting" and then says unable to connect.
i have tried checking the realmlist file and the config file ,i have tried reinstalling , i have tried opening ports, flushing my DNS , using the realmlist IP as my reference in the realmlist file and config, i have tried anything imaginable.
I have tried connceting to other private servers on 3.3.5a , as so it happens i can connect to them without any problem...
The strange thing is that sometimes it can work and sometimes it wont, i dont know what dictates this but it is very frastrating,
please help me


P.S i have tried everything in the sticky, searched posts with similar problems, none of them helped.