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August 19, 2015
Mr. Lahey

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Originally Posted by sushikitty

I am sure plenty people would find that distasteful. For us, we knew each other for a while. We had mutual friends in game. Also, I would NEVER encourage anyone to marry just because there is a baby. Or feel like you have to be in a relationship, because of a baby. To me, I am happy how everything fell together.

A word of advice from someone who gambled his life away on train stations, airplane terminals and miles and miles of always chasing for people. There's always something new to discover when you're living with someone, whether it will be bad or good determines what kind of an adventure you will have.

Buckle up, put your toughest face on and fight against the light of the day, after all you have to code your baby. Babies are compilers that are just waiting for you to input your code in. Remember the almighty principle, garbage in - garbage out.
August 19, 2015
Gagha

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Originally Posted by sushikitty

No we are late 20s. C:

Oh ! Isn't it too soon to make a child ? :3
August 19, 2015
Mercy

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Originally Posted by PROJECTyuma

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Babies are a huge, and I mean _massive_ responsibility. I worked as a babysitter just for the night and the night alone, and it was crazy. Anyway I'm not against kids even though it seems popular to not want to have kids.
It's just crazy hard for young parents. IDK why I thought you guys are like 17 or something.

If it's a girl name her Yuma :]
edit, if it's a boy, name him Yuma as well. It's cool

Personally, I'm never going to try and have my own child. I want to adopt, though. Tons of kids without proper parents these days. It's kinda sad.
With the world's overpopulation being a growing concern, I think it's cool that not wanting to have kids being popular is a cool thing.

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Originally Posted by sushikitty

I wish we were early 20's. :<

You and me both, sister.

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Originally Posted by Gagha

Oh ! Isn't it too soon to make a child ? :3

It's quite the appropriate age, actually.
August 19, 2015
DeadlyWanderer

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Originally Posted by Gagha

Oh ! Isn't it too soon to make a child ? :3

I see people who are like 19 and are getting married and having kids. 25+ is just fine.
August 19, 2015
PROJECTyuma

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Originally Posted by Mercy

With the world's overpopulation being a growing concern, I think it's cool that not wanting to have kids being popular is a cool thing.

You not wanting to have kids is not going to solve overpopulation. Educating the entirety of the Third World is.... or sterilizing them :)
August 19, 2015
Link

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Originally Posted by Proterean

A word of advice from someone who gambled his life away on train stations, airplane terminals and miles and miles of always chasing for people. There's always something new to discover when you're living with someone, whether it will be bad or good determines what kind of an adventure you will have.

Buckle up, put your toughest face on and fight against the light of the day, after all you have to code your baby. Babies are compilers that are just waiting for you to input your code in. Remember the almighty principle, garbage in - garbage out.

kids do not do exactly what you tell them and only exactly what you tell them, they do the opposite for lols
August 19, 2015
Mr. Lahey

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Originally Posted by Link

kids do not do exactly what you tell them and only exactly what you tell them, they do the opposite for lols

Welcome to software development 101
August 19, 2015
sushikitty

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Originally Posted by Proterean

There's always something new to discover when you're living with someone, whether it will be bad or good determines what kind of an adventure you will have.

This. Very perfect advice. I see plenty of couples that will marry before moving in together. I'm just like, "Uhhh...oh...kay. Good luck with that." I'd like to know bad/good habits of what they might have. Certain things might annoy you too much.

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Originally Posted by Gagha

Oh ! Isn't it too soon to make a child ? :3

No. I study female fertility for the past 7 years. I know women/couples want a perfect scenario to have children, however there is really no "perfect' scenario. A woman is best fertile in her 20's, with the healthiest eggs. 30's to 40's you're pushing it for health risks for you and the fetus (as in down syndrome). Not saying you shouldn't have a baby 30-50 years old, but it is just harder/riskier. A lot of women want to wait when they are a lot older, after a career, travel, financial stability but their body isn't in their prime anymore to carry a baby. You need to find a medium between financial stability and your biological clock.

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Originally Posted by Link

kids do not do exactly what you tell them and only exactly what you tell them, they do the opposite for lols

Yep. You have to be wittier than some of these little guys! They try to play you like a fiddle!
August 19, 2015
Mercy

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Originally Posted by PROJECTyuma

You not wanting to have kids is not going to solve overpopulation. Educating the entirety of the Third World is.... or sterilizing them :)

Wow, no **** sherlock.
August 20, 2015
Lawl

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Originally Posted by DeadlyWanderer

I see people who are like 19 and are getting married and having kids. 25+ is just fine.

How bad is teen pregnancy in the EU? I knew about 5 people who had kids in highschool. One of them had a kid right out of middle school (8th grade).

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Originally Posted by PROJECTyuma

You not wanting to have kids is not going to solve overpopulation. Educating the entirety of the Third World is.... or sterilizing them :)

Trying to teach third world countries that rape = bad won't be easy. Especially if the country is ran by a government that doesn't believe there is a rape issue or if rape is an issue at all.
August 20, 2015
Gagha

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Originally Posted by Mercy

It's quite the appropriate age, actually.

It doesn't only depend on the age, but also on the situation the parents are in, wether they are ready or not.
For that, I always think that the older, the better.

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Originally Posted by DeadlyWanderer

I see people who are like 19 and are getting married and having kids. 25+ is just fine.

I hope you realise how terrible such an example is. Having a child at 19 is as bad for him/her as it is for the parents, unless the parents don't bother. But the child is another matter to be taken into consideration. We don't play with human lives.

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Originally Posted by sushikitty

No. I study female fertility for the past 7 years. I know women/couples want a perfect scenario to have children, however there is really no "perfect' scenario. A woman is best fertile in her 20's, with the healthiest eggs. 30's to 40's you're pushing it for health risks for you and the fetus (as in down syndrome). Not saying you shouldn't have a baby 30-50 years old, but it is just harder/riskier. A lot of women want to wait when they are a lot older, after a career, travel, financial stability but their body isn't in their prime anymore to carry a baby. You need to find a medium between financial stability and your biological clock.

Biologically, it may be the right age to have a child, but it’s not what I was talking about. Being parent implies to fulfill many conditions such as responsability, a good steady situation and being able to give a complete education, which will always be hard even for a 40 years old mother who had already borne children before. Perhaps those you are talking about prefer waiting for the right time to make a child, which isn't so bad. If you see however that you are ready to be a parent, then I can only wish you happiness in your family life. I personally forbade myself to have children before my 30, and would gladly push it further if need be.
August 20, 2015
sushikitty

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Originally Posted by Gagha

If you see however that you are ready to be a parent, then I can only wish you happiness in your family life. I personally forbade myself to have children before my 30, and would gladly push it further if need be.

I am beyond ready. You see I've been a mother already for a long long long time now. :) I personally, would rather stick to under 30 having kids while I have the engergy and youth. I am a lot older now and the energy is wasn't like how it was before. (Personally)
August 20, 2015
BlueAo

The air around here is heavy, its hard to breathe.
Can we keep it at something pointless and not go off topic in the of topic section where there's no topic to begin with? D:
August 20, 2015
Hugolich

Sure...

I can't buy the laptop I wanted, because there's some papers that I don't have in order to buy it :/

have to buy an expensive, crappy one in a shopping mall around here...
August 20, 2015
Lawl

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NBc3l6VY-ng

The vocals gief me chills

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