Maybe the problem isn't the community, but your paper-thin self-consciousness. Plenty of other people are just fine and don't get butthurt over what some guy on the internet says. People don't have to like or compliment you all day, get over it or please do f off.
I mean seriously, who get's insulted by some random and then makes a forum post whining about it? Please do actually leave.
I don't know about anyone else but i don't think every single community in gaming has to be this thin-skinned cryfest about "toxicity" - a word used by man-children that can't handle it when people say mean things over the internet... :' (

