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Originally Posted by sushikitty

I am just built differently. You can be labeled as "the most attractive man or woman" by majority of people (or whatever), but if you're an ***, you are disrespectful, liar, rude, or talk down to me..You're "ugly" to me. I will never be attracted to you inside or out. This goes for dating or friends. I am simply attracted to people from the inside.

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Well when we talk about dating, looks is the single more important thing. Looks is what creates the spark and what determines if two people are going to date or not. They can't stare into your soul and see you're the most beautiful person ever. Everyone can say that they are mainly attracted by personality, but I doubt you will date a pasty fat nerd even if he had the best personality ever. His looks won't even allow you to approach him to give him a chance and don't try to say it's not true because you know it is

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Originally Posted by TheClam

Well when we talk about dating, looks is the single more important thing. Looks is what creates the spark and what determines if two people are going to date or not. They can't stare into your soul and see you're the most beautiful person ever. Everyone can say that they are mainly attracted by personality, but I doubt you will date a pasty fat nerd even if he had the best personality ever. His looks won't even allow you to approach him to give him a chance and don't try to say it's not true because you know it is

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It really isnt...

Every single on of my ex's and even my current SO I've only ever cared about who they are as a person, because at the end of the day we all get old, we all get wrinkles and get saggy. Looks are here for just a mere moment to capture but a personality and a good soul is there ageless.

I have dated a "pasty nerd", I've dated an "attractive" person, I've dated someone of different ethnicity, it really doesn't ****ing matter what someone looks like. I'd rather sit there and talk with someone, be with someone who has a soul and a personality that I want to spend time with.

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Originally Posted by Lawl

I wanted dreads for such a long time. But I never had the money for it.

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Weren't you like.... bald?

I had this vague mental image that you were like a bald dude with a white shirt and camo shorts and sandals and sunglasses sitting at a hotel desk and watching the beach....

I guess 90% of my views of people around here are wrong, lol.

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Originally Posted by TheClam

Well when we talk about dating, looks is the single more important thing. Looks is what creates the spark and what determines if two people are going to date or not.

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You can't be serious. I mean, have your own preferences and all, but don't talk like that's a universal truth, fam. It's not. Who sees a person and says to themselves "damn, i wanna date that, because it looks good"?

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Originally Posted by Radvo

Weren't you like.... bald?

I had this vague mental image that you were like a bald dude with a white shirt and camo shorts and sandals and sunglasses sitting at a hotel desk and watching the beach....

I guess 90% of my views of people around here are wrong, lol.

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To me you're a short skinny guy with no beard or the ability to grow a beard. You have glasses, brown hair, usually wear flannels with jeans and have a really faggy voice. I know you study computer science or whatever, so maybe I see you as the wimpy nerd archetype.

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Originally Posted by warnly

Who sees a person and says to themselves "damn, i wanna date that, because it looks good"?

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Who doesn't? Who sees a person and says to themselves "damn I bet that person has a really nice personality. I wanna date dat"
Looks is the single most important factor. Personality decided if it'll last or the quality of the relationship, otherwise looks makes you approachable or not.

Looks are great and what matters the most for a first visual impression, for instant hook-ups, for sexual attractiveness. Chances are you will feel attracted to someone beautiful and be "interested in dating them" for sexual purposes, or if you just want a trophy to show off. But for actual romantic dating, where you would have a degree of things in common, some mutual interests and opinions, and so on, looks aren't as important. Of course if people have similar available options, with one being prettier, chances are that one will be the one they will go for, but because the beauty being a "favorable extra," not as the main concern. Still, if you only decide you want to date someone because of their looks, not sure which is the shallowest, you or your relationships.

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Originally Posted by TheClam

To me you're a short skinny guy with no beard or the ability to grow a beard. You have glasses, brown hair, usually wear flannels with jeans and have a really faggy voice. I know you study computer science or whatever, so maybe I see you as the wimpy nerd archetype.

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Hah, that's interesting, really :D

Really far off, but interesting none-the-less.
Uhm.. If I were to describe myself, I'm average height (173 cm), used to wear a chin curtain, now I have a full face trimmed beard (still in development, it's only been 1 month I think since I clean-shaved, but I gotta keep trimming it to avoid looking like a hobo), I do have glasses, you're correct on that, I have the blackest hair of anyone I've ever known ( people said I dyed my hair :( ), I don't like the look of those flannels, not really my type.. I either wear slim-fit t-shirts or loose short-sleeve shirts for top and jeans bottoms, whether they're long legged for college/professional or short for going outside. My voice is also really really deep :P (and I lift, not all computer science nerds are wimps)

To me.. idk enough about you but I'll guess you're the average teen american male, the kind of guys you see trying to start a youtube channel with skate park tricks and whatnot. Kinda the edgy teen spirited guy.

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Originally Posted by Radvo

Weren't you like.... bald?

I had this vague mental image that you were like a bald dude with a white shirt and camo shorts and sandals and sunglasses sitting at a hotel desk and watching the beach....

I guess 90% of my views of people around here are wrong, lol.

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I used to be a beach bum which means I used to have long hair that was absolutely FAAABBBBUUUUUU.

No but seriously. I ****ing hate camo, I love flip flops, I wear glasses for HD vision.

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Originally Posted by Radvo

To me.. idk enough about you but I'll guess you're the average teen american male, the kind of guys you see trying to start a youtube channel with skate park tricks and whatnot. Kinda the edgy teen spirited guy.

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haha this is closer to the truth than I'm comfy with. I'm not american and not a skater though but close enough.

Anyway what's everyone doing for Valentine's evening time?

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Originally Posted by Radvo

Weren't you like.... bald?

I had this vague mental image that you were like a bald dude with a white shirt and camo shorts and sandals and sunglasses sitting at a hotel desk and watching the beach....

I guess 90% of my views of people around here are wrong, lol.

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I lol'ed xD

Wait, I'm curious now... what do you think I look like then?

Like this but skinny

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How I imagined Radvo before he told us what he looks like..
http://hosting03.imagecross.com/imag...6/8751nerd.jpg

How I imagine him now.... only less handsome (sorry but this guy is like a 10/10 and I find it rather difficult to believe you might be a 10)
http://www.dailyhairdo.com/wp-conten...ter-Beard-.jpg

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Originally Posted by Kemii

How I imagined Radvo before he told us what he looks like..
http://hosting03.imagecross.com/imag...6/8751nerd.jpg

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He looks exactly like this in my mind.

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Originally Posted by Bleedticks

Can't believe how hyped I was for Blade and Soul..

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Everyone was.... and it seems like a major letdown..

Kemii was right.... it was nothing but good publicity and sheep mentality.

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Originally Posted by Kemii

How I imagined Radvo before he told us what he looks like..

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Originally Posted by TheClam

He looks exactly like this in my mind.

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That was painfully close to truth a few years ago, like when I was 16-17 xD But bushier brows, rounder face and fuller lips (if that's a word).

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Originally Posted by Kemii

gine him now.... only less handsome (sorry but this guy is like a 10/10 and I find it rather difficult to believe you might be a 10)

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I'm not THAT pretty... I'd say I'm prolly a 7-8/10, though I'm really unphotogenic. If you get lucky I might snap a selfie and post it in the pics thing.