It's like you missed half of what I said. Just nevermind.
Printable View
It's like you missed half of what I said. Just nevermind.
You are using guy logic on woman, life doesn't work that way. There's a fine line between compliments and being a nasty little creep in a womans mind. "you got gorgeous eyes" is a compliment, "i would **** you any day/ nice tits" is the creeper side of things. Same goes for your irl vs inet example. Thinking something is one side of the story, but writing "hey i would love banging you" is something you wouldn't do irl, so why does it become perfectly fine to you online? And please don't try telling me you go up to girls irl and call them a milf, you would have lost all your teeth by now. Like i get it, guys feel complimented if a girl would say dirty **** like "nice ****", woman simply dont work like us.
tl:dr; That you don't understand someones reasoning, doesn't mean you are right.
A guy coming up to me that I barely know, telling me I'm hot/sexy just seems desperate and distasteful. Internet or not. Cat calling me will just make me walk faster to get away from you. I don't even like it when guys approach me and randomly say, "You look very beautiful." Makes me feel awkward. I am weird. It is very hard to impress me.
This. 99% of your guy straight friends are thinking that.
Also, the ILF part only implies a person is good looking, because Iwouldn'tLF an ugly person.
I don't get sex being such a taboo subject. If someone acknowledges "you have gorgeous eyes" you can be damn sure you also have other nice features, be it face, curves or whathaveyou, that he cannot mention because it would seem creepy and so he would lose any chances to continue conversation with you.
I on the other hand have no intention of continuing any conversation on the subject, so telling you (or a woman on the internet) that she is sexy (by implying she looks like a MILF which is really rare as I really don't find any person over the age of 30 to be sexually attractive considering I'm 21) has no real meaning in any of our futures, maybe give you a really tiny bit of self confidence if you aren't full of it already.
Here's creepy on the internet: I printed your pictures and ejaculate on them.
Here's not creepy on the internet: You look like a milf (a person at an advanced age that is still sexy).
Don't forget the ice pls.
You made it out to be a big deal that you're the centre of attention, when it's ridiculously easy to be. No facts were assumed at all.
I'm not bias against you, I'm the same with all people so don't think I've reserved some special kind of treatment/judgement just for you.
I thought this was normal.
In all seriousness both examples are weird.
Okay, implying a female person in their late 20's, early 30's is sexy is weird.
I will address the issue.
Grace u old&ugly af fam.
You are missing the ****ing point dude. Think what ever you want, no one gives a flying ****. But if you walked up to my girl irl and say anything along those lines you'll eat soup for the rest of your life and I highly doubt any guy feels any different about this. Being on the internet doesn't change what's considered disrespectful, people just push it more because they can't get knocked out.
Tell me how often you got laid or into a relationship from calling some girl a milf, chances are restraining orders hit your adress the following day, but surely no phone call.
1) Considering he actually gets laid often.
2) He's naturally an expert in approaching women. Can't you see that by his special speech? I just wish I was in the right places at the right time to see his face turning.
I know you are like that, love. I know.