So it really is a case of "Play Resto or don't play at all?"
That's really, really disappointing, that this kind of class/spec bias exists in an era at old as Wrath. And that's a real turn-off from playing Shaman then. I don't mind learning healer, but it's not the only thing I want to be doing as a raid Shaman.
What buffs does Resto Shaman bring that make them non-negotiable? The way my Resto Shaman would've been specced, 52/19, anything nice that they seem to bring, namely enhanced Strength of Earth/Flametongue Totems, still gets overwritten by other class buffs.
https://wotlkdb.com/?talent#hZhxxIZx0ezIeoxkrhRt:0LscmM
So, in any case, what should I do? Is it wrong then to play Enhancement Shaman while soloing/questing and keep Resto for RDF/Raids only? I'd go Orc if that's the case, for Axe Mastery and Command, since all three races seem relatively equal as far as Resto goes, and I absolutely hate Troll.