How does one end up picking up someone who isn't attractive for you? Isn't the whole point asking someone out because you feel that the person is attractive? Only way you end up with someone based on emotions only has to be if you've been friends to start with so you've come to the point that you know each others fairly well.
This is where I say, what is consider "attractive"? I could meet a 12/10 hot guy. However, he could be a serial killer, pedofile, or a cold hearted ******* that treats people like ****. Trippin' little old ladies down the stairs. Total shut down for me. There needs to be a fluctuation of both aspects; physical and emotional attraction.
The first thing that attracts me is if someone can make me laugh, and/or I can hold up an intellectual conversation with him.
This is where I say, what is consider "attractive"? I could meet a 12/10 hot guy. However, he could be a serial killer, pedofile, or a cold hearted ******* that treats people like ****. Trippin' little old ladies down the stairs. Total shut down for me. There needs to be a fluctuation of both aspects; physical and emotional attraction.
The first thing that attracts me is if someone can make me laugh, and/or I can hold up an intellectual conversation with him.
There is more underneath a shiny pretty wrapper.
Attractive doesn't mean that they have to be 10/10.... just that they have to be cute enough for someone to actually take their time to ask em out.
I don't get why u hate casual sex so much, no frills attached is the best thing cause you ain't gotta worry bout any emotional ****
There is a very good reason behind this for me, not something I wish to tell people about and there are only 3 people who know.
Sex is a huge trust thing with me, and I will never have sex outside of a real relationship.
Attractive doesn't mean that they have to be 10/10.... just that they have to be cute enough for someone to actually take their time to ask em out.
That is when you ask a female like me, and I say, "No, thank you". Due to that I know you JUST see my "pretty wrapper" (physical appearance). Also, you have done absolutely nothing to grab my attention.