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**~~magaginho~~** · December 16, 2016

clubs arent hated for their bartenders or models standing outside luring people in, no one cares about them.

You're right, clubs are hated by the people that go to them. Reason why you have clubs that don't allow some people to step in them. They have standards. If you went there once and you were having a behaviour that is considered unnaceptable you won't enter the club ever again. Or you can just hate them as a whole - Whatever floats your boat dude.

Originally Posted by Obnoxious

Nor did I hint there was any intention. The point is just that you don't necessarily have to experiment something to not be interested in it.

I know. I had to joke around it though.

Originally Posted by Obnoxious

The problem here is you seem to be taking it personally. No one is talking about the staff. People usually don't go to clubs looking up to trying to hook up with people working there. Even if that might happen, that's not what leads people to clubs in the first place, at least. The staff doesn't comes into consideration for my dislike of clubbing.

Trust me when I say I didn't take it personally whatsoever. I just mentioned the fact that some people generalize every single individual behind those jobs and that they shouldn't. It was a mention to something that we both know that happens and that I honestly consider unfair. Just having a talk about it, that's all. Specially because I like to hear feedbacks of people that don't like clubs since I can get ideas out of those points in order to try to make certain clubs a better place.

**TheSkiller** · December 16, 2016

Originally Posted by Kasumii

As long as they get paid, does it really matter if they're cared for?

since when is it an insult if someone doesnt care about you? lmao
its a good thing, people come and get what they wanted from you and dont bear you in their minds, not positively and not negatively, thats the best possible thing for an employee in every single job area except the ones where you need to have deeper understanding of who you are speaking to

the staff of any working place is supposed to be professional and educated, its the customers and the type of service that the place provides that makes someone have an opinion about it, not the guy that fills your glass up and takes your money which takes about 3% of your night out

**~~magaginho~~** · December 16, 2016

Originally Posted by TheSkiller

since when is it an insult if someone doesnt care about you? lmao(...)

the staff of any working place is supposed to be professional and educated, its the customers and the type of service that the place provides that makes someone have an opinion about it, not the guy that fills your glass up and takes your money which takes about 3% of your night out

In my specific role, it is an "insult". If you went to see one show and you didn't like it, that's something I need to work on and make sure you come back. People that come back to watch/hear it are the people that pay my wage at the end of the month. If I start ignoring those people and only care about my opinion that means that I'll be without a paycheck or see my salary getting hit by my agency. Being a professional and educated person won't save me from the reactions of a crowd if I'm not being a good entertainer or if I sound like crap.

**Kasumii** · December 16, 2016

Originally Posted by TheSkiller

since when is it an insult if someone doesnt care about you? lmao
its a good thing, people come and get what they wanted from you and dont bear you in their minds, not positively and not negatively, thats the best possible thing for an employee in every single job area except the ones where you need to have deeper understanding of who you are speaking to

the staff of any working place is supposed to be professional and educated, its the customers and the type of service that the place provides that makes someone have an opinion about it, not the guy that fills your glass up and takes your money which takes about 3% of your night out

I'm sorry, I must've forgotten to write the part about feeling insulted in my post.

My overall point was, who gives a **** what people think or whether or not they care about? I'm there to do a job and make money everyone else can do w/e the hell they want for all I care. I got paid, job done.

**TheSkiller** · December 16, 2016

Originally Posted by Kasumii

I'm sorry, I must've forgotten to write the part about feeling insulted in my post.

My overall point was, who gives a **** what people think or whether or not they care about? I'm there to do a job and make money everyone else can do w/e the hell they want for all I care. I got paid, job done.

great, exactly what I said as well, why ask me if it matters if they are cared for then? not really needed to explain what I explained already so I thought you considered it insulting if someone doesnt care about you, like magaginho does.

Originally Posted by magaginho

In my specific role, it is an "insult". If you went to see one show and you didn't like it, that's something I need to work on and make sure you come back. People that come back to watch/hear it are the people that pay my wage at the end of the month. If I start ignoring those people and only care about my opinion that means that I'll be without a paycheck or see my salary getting hit by my agency. Being a professional and educated person won't save me from the reactions of a crowd if I'm not being a good entertainer or if I sound like crap.

you are just doing your job and you are probably doing it well enough if you are still in the position after 10 years.
got nothing against someone doing his job, but the place, as a whole, isnt very appealing to some people

**~~magaginho~~** · December 16, 2016

Originally Posted by TheSkiller

you considered it insulting if someone doesnt care about you, like magaginho does.

I expressed myself poorly. I shouldn't have used the word "insulting" but the word "concern". It doesn't insult me directly but I do need to concern myself with what the critics (crowds) think about what I'm doing in order to improve and endure. Most of the people think that it's an easy job to do but it's quite hard to listen to every single critic (including destructive ones) and having to face people that want to destroy you isn't easy either. Plus you can't really hide yourself from those critics behind a screen; You're forced to stare them in the eyes in every single gig.

**Redfred** · December 16, 2016

An early Christmas present from my brother.

**Kemii** · December 16, 2016

Originally Posted by helzz

Why would you even use tumblr for porn though

That makes no sense to me

As obnoxious said below, there is so much good fanart, writing and active RP community there.
Plus there is always some people who share your specific kink that you would have no issues finding exactly what you want and discovering more.

Originally Posted by Obnoxious

It's the source of a lot of porn fan-art. DeviantArt too.
Printerest is good for tracing such sources.

Originally Posted by magaginho

The topic Overwatch porn was a thing that always made me cringe somehow. Don't know what's the interest behind such fantasy.

Not just OW, but some a giant League community too.
Each to their own, no-one should feel shamed over their tastes and preferences.

Originally Posted by TheSkiller

what if someone just dislikes night clubs because of the disgisting mainstream music and because its ridden with pathetic people that get drunk/high to have fun and get laid easily with some stranger

And this is why I was super happy that my city had two good alternative/metal nightclubs which I'd go to every weekend. We had a great sense of community everyone knew everyone and we just had a good time. Most people were married/engaged/LTR so it was a fairly safe place to be if you felt vulnerable. Metalheads are just chill and want to enjoy the atmosphere (the odd broken rib in a moshpit is unavoidable though)

**TheSkiller** · December 16, 2016

my city has none, the only places you can go out to are playing the same generic music night after night, never to change as it seems.
the only time I heard some metal/rock other than in my home was at the train station