My opinion is very relevant. I've been on your server, icecrown, outland, and now frostwolf. I have experience here, and I understand your frustration, but you're asking the GMs to intrude on players, playing the game. This topic has been discussed so many times the time I've been here, that I can honestly say, I can speak for them on this subject. (unless changes have been applied very recently that I have overlooked. If so, I apologize to you and the staff and will definitely delete this post.)
Your gaming experience is actually what's irrelevant here, because you think you're a special case, which you're not. Nothing you said has not been complained about, or discussed. Hundreds of topics which always lead to one simple resolution: Get over it. It happens on both ends, and will continue to happen. as I mentioned before, look at the title of the game you are playing. Look at the history of this game, and what type of people play it. the GAME is your experience, and the only decision you can make for yourself is, coping with it, or discontinuing your progress.
This is an MMO, and you're just like everyone else. You get the same gaming experience they do. Goodluck, and find your own resolution to these problems, because they exist for everyone, not just you.
And for the record, never state the zone you're trying to level in, because it will get worse.