The huge gear gap you’re seeing isn’t random matchmaking — it’s because you’re often facing full, stacked premades in nearly every battleground. I’m not talking about small 5-man groups; it’s usually 10- or 15-man premades, and even full 40-man teams in battlegrounds like AV and IoC. These groups farm honorable kills (HKs) 7 days a week, making matches feel one-sided and unfair.
Even if you join a premade yourself, unless you’re a veteran with tons of HKs and top gear, you’ll still be on the losing side. When 2 fully stacked, fully geared premades meet each other, they might fight once or twice, but as soon as one loses, they leave and go back to farming undergeared or casual players.
When a premade leaves mid-match, confused players like you fill the spot - only to get farmed or punished with deserter for leaving. So basically you are left with 2 choices: either grind for months (being farmed) or buy a geared character to get into a premade, and become a "farmer" yourself.
Once in a while, maybe once a month, you might get lucky and play a normal fair battleground. But by what I’ve seen, this isn’t going anywhere soon. The common response? “Deal with it.” As a suggestion, you might want to queue and listen to music or watch something on a second monitor while you slowly farm honor by being farmed.
Unfortunately that’s the reality right now.