Share something pointless about your life!

[magaginho]

I wouldn't like a girl that smokes either... Cause of the smell... I try to get away from people that are in that moment, smoking...

Idk, I've never experienced a girl "melting my brain" before, but, I wouldn't even think about having a relationship with her because of that, it's just the smell lol... Anyway, if she did really melt my brain, well, I guess I'd have to do a sacrifice... Which, from what I understand, is what a relationship is all about, yes?

You give and you take in a relationship. Sacrifices are mandatory and each person shapes themselves to each other in the ways that are necessary. Usually that's how it should go.

If you care about your health, why do you smoke? Feels to me wrong.
And, since most likely you yourself play wow, the only way you can make it is if you dislike yourself as well. *well, this is wow server forum, so...* However, otherwise I do understand people who dislike when someone plays computer games, I know many such people myself, and I'm fine with the fact they dislike me.

I smoke because I enjoy it. ENJOY is the keyword here. I take the measures I need to take in order to make my health be "under control". I know it doesn't make me any good however I smoke, I drink and I can live longer than you. You can go outside and get hit by a truck or you can have a subit heart attack. You're never well in life so might as well live it the way I want to and not in the way that society condemns me to.

Same here, but how can a girl melt my brain if I can't stand even talking to her irl *implied by the fact I hate being around people who smoke*. And, as said earlier, looks set the lowest barrier and are worthless to me after that.

Measuring someone's personality through one life decision that isn't even permanent seems way off to me. Life will shape you I guess.

[Shiina]

Smoking is disgusting.

[unbanned]

Isn't it interesting how that tends to be newcomers most of the time?

The so called 'vets' aren't exactly welcoming to the newcomers of the thread.

[Hugolich]

Same here, but how can a girl melt my brain if I can't stand even talking to her irl *implied by the fact I hate being around people who smoke*. And, as said earlier, looks set the lowest barrier and are worthless to me after that.

Well, she isn't smoking all the time, is she now? You'll get to know her during that time...

[Mercy]

The so called 'vets' aren't exactly welcoming to the newcomers of the thread.

I don't know. There are a fair number of newcomers that get along just fine in here.

[Deathmastered]

You give and you take in a relationship. Sacrifices are mandatory and each person shapes themselves to each other in the ways that are necessary. Usually that's how it should go.



I smoke because I enjoy it. ENJOY is the keyword here. I take the measures I need to take in order to make my health be "under control". I know it doesn't make me any good however I smoke, I drink and I can live longer than you. You can go outside and get hit by a truck or you can have a subit heart attack. You're never well in life so might as well live it the way I want to and not in the way that society condemns me to.



Measuring someone's personality through one life decision that isn't even permanent seems way off to me. Life will shape you I guess.

Why do you enjoy smoking then? What's the enjoyable part in it?

Smoking is disgusting.

Completely agreed. Tried to find a gif for it, but didnt manage to find one.

Well, she isn't smoking all the time, is she now? You'll get to know her during that time...

Thats why I said that's the point the option for her to be acquintance is enabled. Therefore I'll notice in case she is. If she is but not next to me, I'll be able to help her get rid of that at all, thanks to schools I mentioned before.

[magaginho]

Why do you enjoy smoking then? What's the enjoyable part in it?

It's something that relaxes me, I like the taste of it and it's my company while I'm working since I spend a lot of time by myself. You won't understand why it is enjoyable however I can also ask you what's enjoyable of going through your school olympics and what's enjoyable about playing videogames. Each person will have his own interpretation and will judge you in your life decisions as well. If you consider yourself in a good position of looking into a girl and tell that she isn't good enough just because she smokes she can also look at you and state that you're not worth a dime because you play videogames or because you're a "nerd" that goes to school olympics.

[Deathmastered]

It's something that relaxes me, I like the taste of it and it's my company while I'm working since I spend a lot of time by myself. You won't understand why it is enjoyable however I can also ask you what's enjoyable of going through your school olympics and what's enjoyable about playing videogames. Each person will have his own interpretation and will judge you in your life decisions as well. If you consider yourself in a good position of looking into a girl and tell that she isn't good enough just because she smokes she can also look at you and state that you're not worth a dime because you play videogames or because you're a "nerd" that goes to school olympics.

So you are nervous and/or stressed. Which was one of my points. What is enjoyable about going through school olympics? Honestly, nothing. But it has to be done for my future. Getting in higher spots there will help me find better university. That's the point.
Enjoyable about playing videogames? Honestly, nothing. It's just something my brain can do while relaxing and listening to music.
As I said earlier, however, I understand people who dislike those who play videogames and that's totally fine. However, you forget the points I mentioned twice already - in case such question would appear, I'd have no time for both of those - her and videogames, and I obviously would choose video games. Therefore arguement invalid.

[Obnoxious]

He's allowed to be picky if he's willing to put up with the consequences. I'm picky too, and I've put up with it.

He isn't being picky, though, he's just being delusional about how relationships start and grow. You say you wouldn't ever kiss a smoker, but trust me, if you already liked them before you found out they smoke, or if you got to know their personality better and fell for that, you'd overlook the smoking. You might try to get them to stop, you might try to make them not stop around you, but I don't see you being as shallow as ditching a person you really liked just because they have one habit you disapprove.

[Deathmastered]

He isn't being picky, though, he's just being delusional about how relationships start and grow. You say you wouldn't ever kiss a smoker, but trust me, if you already liked them before you found out they smoke, or if you got to know their personality better and fell for that, you'd overlook the smoking. You might try to get them to stop, you might try to make them not stop around you, but I don't see you being as shallow as ditching a person you really liked just because they have one habit you disapprove.

Invalid by what I said above. The only way to be liked by me is pretty much by character, so I must be able to talk to the person irl. But how do I speak IRL to a person I cant stand being nearby?

[Shiina]

Invalid by what I said above. The only way to be liked by me is pretty much by character, so I must be able to talk to the person irl. But how do I speak IRL to a person I cant stand being nearby?

How old are you?

[Deathmastered]

Not sure what does it have to do with the conversation.

[magaginho]

So you are nervous and/or stressed. Which was one of my points. What is enjoyable about going through school olympics? Honestly, nothing. But it has to be done for my future. Getting in higher spots there will help me find better university. That's the point.
Enjoyable about playing videogames? Honestly, nothing. It's just something my brain can do while relaxing and listening to music.
As I said earlier, however, I understand people who dislike those who play videogames and that's totally fine. However, you forget the points I mentioned twice already - in case such question would appear, I'd have no time for both of those - her and videogames, and I obviously would choose video games. Therefore arguement invalid.

No and no. I'm not nervous and I'm not stressed at all. Maybe my wording wasn't the most precise; My point is that is one of the things that tastes me really well after having a coffee for example. I don't ever take a coffee without having a smoke after; It tastes good for me and that's all that matters to me. However I condemn people that think they are superior just because they don't smoke.

Like I stated; In the same way that you're judging someone for smoking the other person can also judge you for doing those school olympics and tell you that you're wasting your time with something that will have almost no impact in your life. That's their point of view but they can also destroy your idea of ideal persona through that.

He isn't being picky, though, he's just being delusional about how relationships start and grow. You say you wouldn't ever kiss a smoker, but trust me, if you already liked them before you found out they smoke, or if you got to know their personality better and fell for that, you'd overlook the smoking. You might try to get them to stop, you might try to make them not stop around you, but I don't see you being as shallow as ditching a person you really liked just because they have one habit you disapprove.

I do have to agree that he's being delusional. I remember my ex-girlfriend didn't like the idea of me smoking and asked me multiple times to quit smoking; However she always respected my decision and overlooked it like you pointed out and really well. People who state that they wouldn't ever do such things are the first ones to succumb to the situations. I truly believe that people only know what they would do if they're catched in the situations and if they actually have feelings in the mix. Stating that you do this or that is quite irrelevant if you never lived such situations.

How old are you?

Probably a teenager by his speech so far (No offense intended).

Not sure what does it have to do with the conversation.

It has a lot to do with the conversation since most of your arguments clearly show that you've still not faced certain situations in life.

[Deathmastered]

No and no. I'm not nervous and I'm not stressed at all. Maybe my wording wasn't the most correct; My point is that is one of the things that tastes me really well after having a coffee for example. I don't ever take a coffee without having a smoke after; It tastes good for me and that's all that matters to me. However I condemn people that think they are superior just because they don't smoke.

Like I stated; In the same way that you're judging someone for smoking the other person can also judge you for doing those school olympics and tell you that you're wasting your time with something that will have almost no impact in your life. That's their point of view but they can also destroy your idea of ideal persona through that.



I do agree have to agree that he's being delusional. I remember my ex-girlfriend didn't like the idea of me smoking and asked me multiple times to quit smoking; However she always respected my decision and overlooked it like you pointed out and really well. People who state that they wouldn't ever do such things are the first ones to succumb to the situations. I truly believe that people only know what they would do if they're catched in the situations and if they actually have feelings in the mix. Stating that you do this or that is quite irrelevant if you never lived such situations.



Probably a teenager by his speech so far (No offense intended).



It has a lot to do with the conversation since most of your arguments clearly show that you've still not faced certain situations in life.

Gonna answer in parts like you posted:
Part 1: Yeah, probably you didnt word correctly. Why would my girlfriend dislike the fact that I'm trying to improve my future? If I get prizes in those olympics, it can improve my chances to get in university. For example, after getting 2nd place in city in Economics olympics Swedish Economy School in Riga sent me a letter suggesting me to go to that school. And no, usually universities dont do that in Latvia. So it can have HUGE impact to my life. If you're talking about wow, as I said, I'm ok if people dislike me because of that, however, as I've said before, I'd drop wow in case I'd get a girlfriend because I'd have no time for wow.

Part 2: That's her choice. Probably she didnt like you smoking for other reason(-s). My one has been mentioned before - I hate being nearby people who smoke.

Part 3 and 4: None taken, though any arguements like "Well then you havent faced this or that situation" are invalid unless you give an example.

[Obnoxious]

Part 3 and 4: None taken, though any arguements like "Well then you havent faced this or that situation" are invalid unless you give an example.

Nothing wrecks and ****s up your convictions like falling for someone.