Have I played retail wow? not really...
Here's the list of retail mmorpgs I've played:
Lineage 2, Archeage, Tera, Rift, Secret world, black desert online, Aion, Blade and soul, skyforge.
I'm not including any private servers in any game listed above, or games like diablo, path of exile, warframe etc.
From ALL the above, Archeage 1st week of launch was the only game I had to wait for 2+ hours to join. And go check its population now...
Trust me I know what I'm talking about! And since you are going against the tide on this being an issue, sorry to say this but you are part of the problem, "my child"...
Do you have any Idea how much a good game server costs? How much Bandwith do you think is needed to support more than 12k players online? You can get one starting at aprox $125 monthly. Do you actually believe they make less than that per month... I just entered a ****ing Wintergrasp and there were 2 multiboxers full geared with 30 characters each.... Do you have ANY IDEA how much money that is? Also since when is botting called multiboxing! they're cheating and GMs are allowing it because MONEY.