You all forget where you started playing. Lordaeron is a hardcore server, as its buffed raid shows all along with its features. Please, do not try to make it a easy server because you did not pay attention to what you were going into.
Pugs are rare for one question: people cannot do the boss correctly if not in a voice program, because of what I have just said.
I personally do not have much time neither... So I joined a guild that was starting to raid, so I could progress with them since I was starting too. We set it to raid on Thursdays and Sundays. We are doing fine, currently clearing Naxx10. We are on it. And when everyone gets 4k, we will start doing Ulduar10.
Get over it. If you all say this, you know WoW not enough to enjoy this server.
By the way, if you wanna follow my steps, whisp Hagarlan in-game and I can send you an invite.