Lol okay dzen master, but why do you think climbing the ladders and outplaying your opponent deprives you of having fun in the meantime?
I think you've just read too much new age bull**** in the recent days and came here to show us the way. Thanks, ill pass.
Besides, whats the point of this thread? Do we care about your views? No.
These spiritual stuff get you nowhere. Lets take the example of the 30 year old guy with the business. What makes you think he didnt enjoy making that business for 30 years? He might have wanted to do it, It might have given him purpose. It might have given him challenges, which in turn give him confidence. It gave him money and social status. He can find like-minded people. And in the end he will think to himself "What a journey".
You will sit on a bench and enjoy sitting on that bench. You will cast Holy Lights and enjoy casting them. But where will these things get you? Youll get kicked out of bgs and arena teams. Where is the competition? Where is the challenge? Where is the satisfaction of getting over that challenge? Not to mention you screw up other players.
You gotta find the balance mate. You should get a goal and follow it, and enjoy the things that happen in the meantime. Otherwise youll be an unhappy bot doing something he doesnt truly want or a spiritual person that takes joy in mundane everyday stuff. Both are horrible.
And to answer your question, there is no point in grinding and stuff or getting up in ladders. But there is no point in life really, so why shouldnt you be free to choose whats important and what not?

