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[Grymninja]

Concise eloquence?

How grandiloquent.

That's not a word. :<

[Orphic]

That's not a word. :<

grandiloquent - lofty in style; "he engages in so much tall talk, one never really realizes what he is saying"
magniloquent, tall
rhetorical - given to rhetoric, emphasizing style at the expense of thought; "mere rhetorical frippery"
2. grandiloquent - puffed up with vanity; "a grandiloquent and boastful manner"; "overblown oratory"; "a pompous speech"; "pseudo-scientific gobbledygook and pontifical hooey"- Newsweek
overblown, pompous, pontifical, portentous
pretentious - making claim to or creating an appearance of (often undeserved) importance or distinction; "a pretentious country house"; "a pretentious fraud"; "a pretentious scholarly edition"
Based on WordNet 3.0, Farlex clipart collection. ?® 2003-2012 Princeton University, Farlex Inc.

[Grymninja]

grandiloquent - lofty in style; "he engages in so much tall talk, one never really realizes what he is saying"
magniloquent, tall
rhetorical - given to rhetoric, emphasizing style at the expense of thought; "mere rhetorical frippery"
2. grandiloquent - puffed up with vanity; "a grandiloquent and boastful manner"; "overblown oratory"; "a pompous speech"; "pseudo-scientific gobbledygook and pontifical hooey"- Newsweek
overblown, pompous, pontifical, portentous
pretentious - making claim to or creating an appearance of (often undeserved) importance or distinction; "a pretentious country house"; "a pretentious fraud"; "a pretentious scholarly edition"
Based on WordNet 3.0, Farlex clipart collection. ?® 2003-2012 Princeton University, Farlex Inc.

Meng what are these lying hacks. You shouldn't make things up. :(

It was a good attempt though. The "Princeton University" part was especially convincing.

[Orphic]

You're welcome...?

[Grymninja]

Ptolemy: "Grym are you on narcotics?"

...why the **** does everyone always ask that!

[Trane]

Don't jump into it lol. She could be talking about someone COMPLETELY different. My bffl will post stuff like that on her Facebook status and she usually gets random guys she's met once or twice messaging her immediately after. And she usually is talking about her ex but most of her "friends" wouldn't know that so a lot of guys (and some girls) just jump the conclusion that she is talking about them.

But who knows, maybe she is talking about you. You should still get to know her. Never hurts befriending someone and possibly having a more serious relationship down the road with them.

Pretty much this.
Don't look into it too much.

I know her but only like "Hey what's up" and small talks.

I don't know. Small talks doesn't seem like much. So, you really don't know if she likes you or not. In my opinion, no. Just keep talking to her. Having small talks won't make herself in her mind like you. And depending how long small talks are, try having a 2 hour conversation. See if you don't bore her and keep her entertained and interested in whatever you talk about.

How do I find out she really has a crush on me?

I don't even. Unless you guys are in high school still growing up, just ask her.
You find out by asking. You don't go on some magical adventure to figure out if she wants your penis. Or you just keep being friends with her and enjoy her friendship. Maybe, something will spark up later. Don't force it.

If you ask her and she reacts like "wtf are you talking about?" then she probably does mean, wtf are you talking about.
The unsubtle no works.
Maybe she will say, maybe.
Or yes.
You never know until you ask.

Don't worry about being alone. Ain't no man need a woman.

[Lawl]

Sometimes I wonder if being in a relationship is all that gr8. I have never been in a relationship before sadly ( i guess), but I have observed other ppl in relationships. While they do seem happy I can never Fathom why. They almost spend every minute of their free time talking on the phone on skype etc. as well as giving each other gifts and stuff every month or so. Just seems like alot of work and effort tbh. Its also a big drain on time as well as energy.Also sadly since I am a dude I will have to pay for all the dates/eating out/movies/gifts/driver places(gas) etc (This is the culture in my country dunno in others if u split bill or if the girl pays for her own ticket) and thats a big drain on my finances. Thats not even counting all the drama involved yet. Perhaps if u love the person enough I guess, but I havent really met any1 like that yet.



Not an expert here but maybe you should try to fix up what is wrong in the relationship with ur current GF or at least tell her. I mean she deserves to know there is problems b4 u switch over

You spend a lot of time with the person you're interested in. And this doesn't necessarily have to be a gf/bf, wife or husband. This could simply be just a friend.

And it really doesn't take much energy spending time with your gf/bf. If they're interested in the person that you are, you don't have to do anything but act like yourself. And you don't have to date someone clingy and spend every waking minute with them if you don't want to. There are people that are very clingy and need your attention 24/7 but there are also people that will give you your space and they won't mind.

And who wouldn't enjoy spending time with someone that has made such a wonderful impact on their life? You don't see it as draining your time when you spend it with someone special. And it doesn't require much effort either.

When you meet someone truly amazing, nothing matters but that person. You're going to want them to be happy and it'll make you happy knowing they're happy. And it's always the little things that make a lot of girls happy (not all). A simple, "good morning beautiful :)" text message could make their day. Not a fancy date or present. But obviously, not ALL girls are like that. But I'm going to assume you're not going to be interested in those girls (or guys).

My ex HATED when I bought her things. I used to have to snatch her credit card out of her hand and hold it up so I could pay for what she wanted lol. But that was my choice and she didn't force me. It wasn't expected of me. And I didn't see that as a problem.

A lot of the girls I know hate when guys spend money on them and they'll even enjoy a simple date like laying down on a beach or park at night. There doesn't even need to be a conversation. The fact that they have you all to themselves is what makes them happy. And the simplest dates are usually the best (in my opinion).

But like I said. When you meet someone truly amazing and you finally have them and they have you. Every second you spend with them, will be a second you won't want back. Every bit of energy you spend on them, will be worth it. And unless if you meet a real ****ty person, it'll be the little things that make him/her happy. And just their presence and company will make you happy.

[Grymninja]

You spend a lot of time with the person you're interested in. And this doesn't necessarily have to be a gf/bf, wife or husband. This could simply be just a friend.

And it really doesn't take much energy spending time with your gf/bf. If they're interested in the person that you are, you don't have to do anything but act like yourself. And you don't have to date someone clingy and spend every waking minute with them if you don't want to. There are people that are very clingy and need your attention 24/7 but there are also people that will give you your space and they won't mind.

And who wouldn't enjoy spending time with someone that has made such a wonderful impact on their life? You don't see it as draining your time when you spend it with someone special. And it doesn't require much effort either.

When you meet someone truly amazing, nothing matters but that person. You're going to want them to be happy and it'll make you happy knowing they're happy. And it's always the little things that make a lot of girls happy (not all). A simple, "good morning beautiful :)" text message could make their day. Not a fancy date or present. But obviously, not ALL girls are like that. But I'm going to assume you're not going to be interested in those girls (or guys).

My ex HATED when I bought her things. I used to have to snatch her credit card out of her hand and hold it up so I could pay for what she wanted lol. But that was my choice and she didn't force me. It wasn't expected of me. And I didn't see that as a problem.

A lot of the girls I know hate when guys spend money on them and they'll even enjoy a simple date like laying down on a beach or park at night. There doesn't even need to be a conversation. The fact that they have you all to themselves is what makes them happy. And the simplest dates are usually the best (in my opinion).

But like I said. When you meet someone truly amazing and you finally have them and they have you. Every second you spend with them, will be a second you won't want back. Every bit of energy you spend on them, will be worth it. And unless if you meet a real ****ty person, it'll be the little things that make him/her happy. And just their presence and company will make you happy.

So ****ing romantic. :'|


And Nyan, guys should pay for the first date because it's being a gentleman, but after that you can split the bill.

[Nyan61192]

Perhaps im just cynical/pessimistic but dont most relationships/marriage crash and burn leaving the participants worse off compared to when they started was reading this in the news.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/sex/divorce/10202478/Judge-begs-couple-to-end-financial-suicide-in-860000-divorce-battle.html

[Lawl]

Perhaps im just cynical/pessimistic but dont most relationships/marriage crash and burn leaving the participants worse off compared to when they started was reading this in the news.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/sex...ce-battle.html

You hear about divorces a lot more than you hear about couples that have an amazing relationship. Hearing about a divorce is just a lot more interesting than hearing about a couple that have been together for x amount of years and they love each other lol.

But yes, some relationships do crash and burn and it can destroy you. But what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger. And that's life. I don't regret my 2 year relationship with my ex. Our breakup was a lot worse than a "crash and burn" but I still don't regret it. I spent some of my happiest days with her.

But I learned and I moved on.

[Nyan61192]

You hear about divorces a lot more than you hear about couples that have an amazing relationship. Hearing about a divorce is just a lot more interesting than hearing about a couple that have been together for x amount of years and they love each other lol.

But yes, some relationships do crash and burn and it can destroy you. But what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger. And that's life. I don't regret my 2 year relationship with my ex. Our breakup was a lot worse than a "crash and burn" but I still don't regret it. I spent some of my happiest days with her.

But I learned and I moved on.

so how did u decide on ur current GF/ex GF was it like love at first sight kinda thing like u saw her and said wow I want her as my GF, or the more no attraction then u get to know them first, or a mix of both. Also how does one actually break up if u are the one initiating it?

[Lawl]

We were actually really good friends for about 2 years and then we just lost touch for about a year and when we got back in touch, we became a lot closer and one day I just manned up and I asked her out. I thought she was incredibly gorgeous and her quiet/crazy personality really attracted me. But she was also the complete opposite of me. Very religious, very kind and sweet and her whole view on life was different from mine.

Opposites attract =P.

[Orphic]

Opposites attract.

Loller + Marazhu?

[Lawl]

Opposites attract.

Loller + Marazhu?

Orphic + Marazhu seems better :|

[Orphic]

You're more opposite of him than me.