He passed out at home and didn't make it. We had a plane flight for tomorrow to fly to Atlanta and see him and the rest of our family there. My mom rescheduled her flight and is leaving in an hour to go spend time with her mom.
I'm not really sure what to do right now. My arms are shaking, but I think that's because I'm sick. I don't know how to react to this. I've barely known any of my family because we've always lived away from them. I've been with my grandfather maybe four times before, and I'm not very close to him. Part of me feels like I've just been rude and insensitive to my grandparents because I never really got to spend that much time with them, and even when I did, I just felt like, I don't know, I was being forced to or something.
:'(
I'll tell you how you'll know how to react: You don't.
You're going to feel bad. A lot. It's going to be painful thinking about it for a very long while. There isn't any way to deal with it than to just be strong and endure. You'll be fine eventually, though.
I'll tell you how you'll know how to react: You don't.
You're going to feel bad. A lot. It's going to be painful thinking about it for a very long while. There isn't any way to deal with it than to just be strong and endure. You'll be fine eventually, though.
My condolences..
Like, the problem is that I almost feel impartial towards the situation, to a point where it's almost as if it doesn't affect my day to day life at all. I'm not even really sad, moreso just shocked because I was going to be in Atlanta in under 24 hours.
Like, the problem is that I almost feel impartial towards the situation, to a point where it's almost as if it doesn't affect my day to day life at all. I'm not even really sad, moreso just shocked because I was going to be in Atlanta in under 24 hours.
Did you read about my reaction to my grandfather's death?
Like, the problem is that I almost feel impartial towards the situation, to a point where it's almost as if it doesn't affect my day to day life at all. I'm not even really sad, moreso just shocked because I was going to be in Atlanta in under 24 hours.
I tell you man, I felt the exact same way lol. It isn't a huge deal because you barely knew him. Therefore, don't make it one.
Like, the problem is that I almost feel impartial towards the situation, to a point where it's almost as if it doesn't affect my day to day life at all. I'm not even really sad, moreso just shocked because I was going to be in Atlanta in under 24 hours.
Don't think too much about it. If you feel that you should .... feel sad just because he was a relative.... don't. If you never knew him, never had much contact with him, never really and truly cared about him, never spent a lot of time with him ... well, things are as simple as that. He is just another person that died.
Since his death, another person died ever second that passed, yet another one was brought to life through birth.
I barely knew my mother's side grandfather. when he died I was just "meh". I don't even remember going to a burial ceremony. Maybe I went, but I don't remember.
Like, the problem is that I almost feel impartial towards the situation, to a point where it's almost as if it doesn't affect my day to day life at all. I'm not even really sad, moreso just shocked because I was going to be in Atlanta in under 24 hours.
Welcome to Lullzy's world. When my grandfather passed I didn't care. Met him three times for a brief amount of time because my unkle would just kick him out. I just felt really bad for my mom because she was flying out to see him before he died but she didn't make it in time and when she got off the plane, she was rushed straight to the funeral. And flying from Florida to Lithuania isn't a short trip.
But I am sorry for your loss. But if you haven't spent a lot of time with your grandparents, maybe you should look into spending some time with your grandmother.
He passed out at home and didn't make it. We had a plane flight for tomorrow to fly to Atlanta and see him and the rest of our family there. My mom rescheduled her flight and is leaving in an hour to go spend time with her mom.
I'm not really sure what to do right now. My arms are shaking, but I think that's because I'm sick. I don't know how to react to this. I've barely known any of my family because we've always lived away from them. I've been with my grandfather maybe four times before, and I'm not very close to him. Part of me feels like I've just been rude and insensitive to my grandparents because I never really got to spend that much time with them, and even when I did, I just felt like, I don't know, I was being forced to or something.
I feel you. I greatly regret not giving much time to any of my grandparents. They're long dead now, and I hardly knew them. What does it feel like when your grandchildren won't associate with you?