You can easy see if someone is using steroids or not, just check out his shoulders, if they are unnatural with shape, thats it... Its their choise what they do, but if u workout for chicks, than just dont, do your workout for yourself. If u wanna met some hot girls, just dont be fat and dont be skiny, and ofc be good with talking, thats most important thing :) In this thread I saw a lot of ppl on steroids, they were probably fat/skiny as kids, teenegers, so now they are trying hard, well there is little tip for u, dont try that hard coz steroids and creatine are bad(check google if u want).