Even though y'all are moderators, doesn't mean we have to like y'all or whorship. Everyone deserves respect equally. It's a gaming forum, we are all human beings outside of the forums. We can have an opinion in the middle of a heated debate. Aggressiveness, upset, and disrespect are three different things.
I am aware of the PM. He just has a lot of respect for me. To you, it wasn't to cause harm. But keep in mind, to others it was disrespectful when someone is in a relationship. We can't read your mind.
First of all, this is a forum. Relationships, sex/gender, indentities, etc. are largely irrelevant. It's also not my responsibility to keep up with personal relationships of any users in question. That's even assuming I was aware of such, which I wasn't, nor should it be relevant. If he wants to take an obvious jest as a personal attack upon him, sure fine. But not only does he know me better than that (shame on him), but it's also his responsibility to maintain a respectable attitude on the forum, especially towards the moderation staff, unless he wishes his posting privileges be revoked.
Secondly, I really don't give a rat's *** what anyone thinks of me, or whether or not they "worship" me. There is a rule-set that determines what is, or is not acceptable, and in that rule-set (to which everyone agreed to and accepted upon creating an account here and posting upon this forum) there is a minimum standard not only for interacting with other community members, but also towards any member of the staff.
If he can't behave, then his posting privileges will be revoked - he is not exempt from those rules, regardless of whether or not he likes it. So, if I were you, I'd try to calm your "hubby" down or have him cease posting. I won't be putting up with his piss-poor attitude any longer.
Even though y'all are moderators, doesn't mean we have to like y'all or whorship. Everyone deserves respect equally. It's a gaming forum, we are all human beings outside of the forums. We can have an opinion in the middle of a heated debate. Aggressiveness, upset, and disrespect are three different things.
I am aware of the PM. He just has a lot of respect for me. To you, it wasn't to cause harm. But keep in mind, to others it was disrespectful when someone is in a relationship. We can't read your mind.
We don't require worship. But we do require respect. We can give some leeway over heated debates, but there are still lines there.
True, they can be a bit blurry, and what's not disrespectful for you might be for one of us. So the general tip is: when in doubt, make sure you're being respectful - even if you're just pretending. And don't make it isn't sarcastic. We're not *****s.
Then explain to me why he has been nothing but aggressive to any moderator (including myself) since starting to post here 2 days or so. And then sending me a PM about how insulted he was because of one of my harmless posts.
I'm about to have a PM war with everyone if I don't get a damn pizza party. A PIZZA PARTY THAT I WAS PROMISED. I will make a scene...I'LL ****ING DO IT.
I'm not interested in your desire for a PM war, which you hinted at earlier. Thanks for the offer though.
No, I simply asked you to message me via PM because I didn't understand your comment. The PM I send you isn't hostile and carries no intention to start any fights, you should know that very well. So could you take 5 minutes of your time now to read it?
I'm about to have a PM war with everyone if I don't get a damn pizza party. A PIZZA PARTY THAT I WAS PROMISED. I will make a scene...I'LL ****ING DO IT.
Fk yeh, a new store opened near me which sells only imported american and british food. ooooooooo i wonder what I should buy, I have no idea whats good and whats not.
I'm about to have a PM war with everyone if I don't get a damn pizza party. A PIZZA PARTY THAT I WAS PROMISED. I will make a scene...I'LL ****ING DO IT.
No, I simply asked you to message me via PM because I didn't understand your comment. The PM I send you isn't hostile and carries no intention to start any fights, you should know that very well. So could you take 5 minutes of your time now to read it?
I couldn't have known any different from your behavior over the past couple of days. I'll trust that it's not a hostile PM and go read it. Hopefully you also understand that I haven't been trying to be rude/mean/whatever towards you. I have a job to do though. I think I've been pretty lenient so far, and I'd like to keep it that way.