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[Ricks2]

She can do whatever she wants.

Of course she can, but Kemii does make a good point. Barely any guy cares about having a serious relationship in Uni.

[Euphemism]

Right, Helena.
I've been reading your posts for a few days and I honestly wanted to slap some sense into you.

Stop trying so hard, you're at uni, you're young, most men you're going to meet there are just meh.
Focus on going out with the girls, doing your studies and curling up with a tub of ice cream and the newest season of Orange Is The New Black.

Its coming across desperate, Yes we get it having someone to give a **** about in life is nice, but there is so much more things to be focused on. You go out your way to force things to happen it's not going to get better you're only going to either wear yourself out or just break your own heart at the end of it.

Anyway chances are once you're finished uni you're going to move either back to your hometown or to another city for a job, and they will not follow.

People really shouldn't be supporting you, because they are not actually helping. You're getting your own heart broken and worn out with the whole "men are ****" bullcrap. Stop caring, be single. Enjoy it. Don't be desperate you are hardly 49 and about to enter menopause.

Now stop feeling sorry for yourself. Tell that guy tomorrow to **** off (Mainly cos he's taking you to Nandos, I mean seriously..... Far from classy.)

I've got to disagree with this. I'm all for taking "me time," but telling someone not to bother dating altogether while in college just seems absurd. Yeah, relationships made in college may not last outside it; people change a lot at that age and in that environment, and that can make staying with someone hard, but that doesn't mean such relationships should be avoided. You don't have to enter a relationship -- never mind just go on a single date with someone -- with the expectation that you're going to marry them or even fall in love with them. Even if the relationship only lasts a year or six months or three weeks, if you had fun, maybe learned something about yourself, it wasn't a waste. Spending your evenings with a tub of ice cream binge watching TV, however, is almost certainly a waste.

Also idk what Nandos is but I'd go on a date with someone to the ****ty 24-hour taqueria in town if I thought they were cool. I don't give a ****; it's about the company not the food. No need to be all...snooty

[Kemii]

Have you not read anything she's written in the past few weeks about her "bad luck with men".... not taking time out and just enjoying your own self for a while isn't helping.

Keep throwing yourself at it is going to tire you out emotionally and leave you with a bitter taste in your mouth.

[sushikitty]

I think Kemii is just concerned as a friend and cares for Helzz not to get hurt. Ask my Grandma (that raised me) if I should be dating right now while in Uni. She would say, "No" and avoid all relationships to stay focused in school so I don't get distracted. Plus most guys (not all) want good booty, so it is hard to find a serious relationship. I would consider advice like that, because my Grandma cares for my well being. I see similarity with Kemii.

[Euphemism]

Have you not read anything she's written in the past few weeks about her "bad luck with men".... not taking time out and just enjoying your own self for a while isn't helping.

Keep throwing yourself at it is going to tire you out emotionally and leave you with a bitter taste in your mouth.

I agree that throwing yourself into relationships and emotionally investing in them immediately is at the very least exhausting and unrewarding, but that doesn't mean one should set aside relationships entirely in college. Focusing on studying and being unsocial in your off time doesn't help you grow emotionally. There's nothing wrong with dating casually as long as both parties are aware of each other's expectations in that regard.

[Lawl]

Not to sound like a parent or anything but just have fun and be safe. Make mistakes, learn from them, laugh at them, move on. Just be have fun and be safe.

[Euphemism]

Not to sound like a parent or anything but just have fun and be safe. Make mistakes, learn from them, laugh at them, move on. Just be have fun and be safe.

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[sushikitty]

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Omg too funny! xD

[Shiina]

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noncy pls

ur mean girls references are top tier

[Lawl]

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[Hugolich]

All this talk about dating gave me a weird feeling... Lol

[helzz]

Right, Helena.
I've been reading your posts for a few days and I honestly wanted to slap some sense into you.

Stop trying so hard, you're at uni, you're young, most men you're going to meet there are just meh.
Focus on going out with the girls, doing your studies and curling up with a tub of ice cream and the newest season of Orange Is The New Black.

Its coming across desperate, Yes we get it having someone to give a **** about in life is nice, but there is so much more things to be focused on. You go out your way to force things to happen it's not going to get better you're only going to either wear yourself out or just break your own heart at the end of it.

Anyway chances are once you're finished uni you're going to move either back to your hometown or to another city for a job, and they will not follow.

People really shouldn't be supporting you, because they are not actually helping. You're getting your own heart broken and worn out with the whole "men are ****" bullcrap. Stop caring, be single. Enjoy it. Don't be desperate you are hardly 49 and about to enter menopause.

Now stop feeling sorry for yourself. Tell that guy tomorrow to **** off (Mainly cos he's taking you to Nandos, I mean seriously..... Far from classy.)

It's just a date. Not a relationship, a date. One single date. And because of that it's Nandos, to keep it casual.

I didn't read the rest but come on. It's just a ****ing first date, there may not even be a second.

Have you not read anything she's written in the past few weeks about her "bad luck with men".... not taking time out and just enjoying your own self for a while isn't helping.

Keep throwing yourself at it is going to tire you out emotionally and leave you with a bitter taste in your mouth.

Sorry, I didn't realise you're only allowed to go on dates with people you want to marry

[Hugolich]

Finnaly had a nice score! 17-7-8 on a competitive match... The Auto is so OP :D

People in this game kept talking another language I did not understand... So annoying :>

[helzz]

I'd probably just be spamming use English ******s

[Hugolich]

Hehe... I thought about it! But, it was like... 4 against 1 xD. I did say to speak english though, they replied via voice chat, in their own language I think... Can't really be sure haha... Anyway, they played really good though, and they could keep themselves quiet when required, was just annoying when they started to do it in the beggining :/

EDIT: Something sad I remembered... Yesterday I was watching Eragon, and I love that movie, anyone knows why didn't they make the 2nd one? If you don't like it, it's fine, just wondering... It's from 2006... lol