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[Obnoxious]

You remind me of all those who've said "you hate smoking? well, you'll change your pov in years to come" in the past 8 years. However, all that's changed is now I hate it more and more.

And you're reminding me of the know-it-all children who swear they don't want to ever come close to girls in their whole lives, because they're yucky and gross and give cooties...

[magaginho]

Again the last sentence in your text was the one I agreed with the most. Which is why I always want to make sure nothing can go wrong because of the specific part I'm dealing with. One may call it immaturity/not enough experience, one might say it's overthinking, but I want to to help others instead of trying to help myself because Im forced to help myself. Which is why I want to make sure.

Helping others has limits. Once you start getting stabbed while you think you're helping those people you'll understand what I mean. When it comes to our own happiness we need to be selfish; I'm not saying you need to stomp people in order to be happy, however, you do need to take care of yourself first. Just understand that denying the possibility of a chance just because you have issues with factor X or Y won't get you anywhere. One step at a time and you'll see things might go your way and if you really want it you'll fight for it.

[Shiina]

And you're reminding me of the know-it-all children who swear they don't want to ever come close to girls in their whole lives, because they're yucky and gross and give cooties...

I'd love it if someone would give me a cutie.

[Obnoxious]

I'd love it if someone would give me a cutie.

And better auto-spellcheck.

[Deathmastered]

And you're reminding me of the know-it-all children who swear they don't want to ever come close to girls in their whole lives, because they're yucky and gross and give cuties...

I feel like you forgot what we're talking about *no offense*

Helping others has limits. Once you start getting stabbed while you think you're helping those people you'll understand what I mean. When it comes to our own happiness we need to be selfish; I'm not saying you need to stomp people in order to be happy, however, you do need to take care of yourself first. Just understand that denying the possibility of a chance just because you have issues with factor X or Y won't get you anywhere. One step at a time and you'll see things might go your way and if you really want it you'll fight for it.

There is a difference between helping and making happy. I have been, as you call it, stabbed by people I tried to help. Multiple times, and that's probably why I want to make sure everything goes as planned. This time there is only one sentence in the whole post you made that I disagree with, and, I believe, you know which one. However, this is not what the subject is about. Partly.
The more I get "injured" *idk what's the correct name in this case, so I'll just go with this one for now*, the more I have to spend time "healing" myself. And that's nothing I want to spend my time on. Which is why I do not want to take risks.
Then you talk about "first of all making sure I'm happy". But I cannot be in a relationship with girl who does something that makes me dislike being nearby her. By making sure I am able to be nearby without being disgusted by her actions or anything about her.

[Obnoxious]

I feel like you forgot what we're talking about

Nah, not really. My point is (I assume) you'd look at boys saying that, shake your head and think they're too young to know better, in a few years they'll be wishing they have girls all over them - which relates to the subject. You're flat out denying something that seriously happens to virtually everyone - finding out their convictions about relationships crumble very easily if they meet the right person - because you're "sure of it." You dodged the question about how old are you, so that just makes it seem to be exactly the case.

[Deathmastered]

Nah, not really. My point is (I assume) you'd look at boys saying that, shake your head and think they're too young to know better, in a few years they'll be wishing they have girls all over them - which relates to the subject. You're flat out denying something that seriously happens to virtually everyone - finding out their convictions about relationships crumble very easily if they meet the right person - because you're "sure of it." You dodged the question about how old are you, so that just makes it seem to be exactly the case.

Because people tend to use age on forums as a reason, while it is pretty much worthless, just as age doesnt show knowledge.


Also, define "the right person", please.

[ColdHuh90]

Smokers smell bad, its a fact but "disgust" is a little bit strong word. Smoking is a minor flaw.

[Obnoxious]

Because people tend to use age on forums as a reason, while it is pretty much worthless, just as age doesnt show knowledge.

Also, define "the right person", please.

Age can be considered a measure of potential life experience. If you're 15, you'd have had half the potential to experience things than someone who's 30 (actually less, since your early ages don't quite count as much, and chances would be you hadn't experienced lots of adult situations, considerations and worries). You can get knowledge from books, but you can't get firsthand life experience from them.

"The right person" is whoever strikes your fancy at the time. They will always be "the one."

[Deathmastered]

Smokers smell bad, its a fact but "disgust" is a little bit strong word. Smoking is a minor flaw.

If "disgust" is a little bit strong word, then that's right on target. If someone smokes next to me or smells like ciggaretes, then asap that person is not next to me anymore.

Age can be considered a measure of potential life experience. If you're 15, you'd have had half the potential to experience things than someone who's 30 (actually less, since your early ages don't quite count as much, and chances would be you hadn't experienced lots of adult situations, considerations and worries). You can get knowledge from books, but you can't get firsthand life experience from them.

"The right person" is whoever strikes your fancy at the time. They will always be "the one."

Potential. Question is how much of the potential each of us have used.
If "the right person" is the one who fancy at this time, then my girlfriend wouldn't smoke and drink alcochol etc. It's that simple. Else she wouldn't be in that status *tried to make different sentence construction, but failed miserably*

[Obnoxious]

Potential. Question is how much of the potential each of us have used.
If "the right person" is the one who fancy at this time, then my girlfriend wouldn't smoke and drink alcochol etc. It's that simple. Else she wouldn't be in that status *tried to make different sentence construction, but failed miserably*

Potential > not being able to even have potential, by default. You could argue that someone one or two years older than you might have used the same amount of potential as you, but when you start adding up years of difference you can't really claim that anymore with much chance of being correct - barring the person being a shut in who never went outside or some such.

And we go into circles again. You completely deny that someone who smokes could be who you fancy, ever, no way - "girls give cooties, I don't want to be near them." You even deflect simply not being aware that they smoke until it's too late, showing an uncanny degree of precognition, but even if we bow to your future-reading powers that would keep that from happening, what do they say if the girl you fancied - or even your girlfriend - decided to start smoking? Would you simply dump it all on the spot?

[Deathmastered]

Potential > not being able to even have potential, by default. You could argue that someone one or two years older than you might have used the same amount of potential as you, but when you start adding up years of difference you can't really claim that anymore with much chance of being correct - barring the person being a shut in who never went outside or some such.

And we go into circles again. You completely deny that someone who smokes could be who you fancy, ever, no way - "girls give cooties, I don't want to be near them." You even deflect simply not being aware that they smoke until it's too late, showing an uncanny degree of precognition, but even if we bow to your future-reading powers that would keep that from happening, what do they say if the girl you fancied - or even your girlfriend - decided to start smoking? Would you simply dump it all on the spot?

Potential - probably in part of this case, yet not close to all. You cannot know what feels one who's mother dies as long as your one doesn't die, no matter how many years older you are.

Ok, I must admit, I used google translator to figure out what does the word "fancy" mean. According to translation, it's the way I'd immagine her to be. Correct me, if google translator was wrong.
Regards the questions - my girlfriend would definetly know better than any other person besides me that I dislike people who smoke. Knowing some other facts about me would make her realize that the same applies to her. So it's either she respects these basics or does not. Outcome would literally depend on that. It would hurt, no doubt, but these would be two, not one, cases at the same time. Smoking and disrespect.

[Kemii]

Oh I forgot to take a screenshot of the pre-game lobby (mostly cos azir was trying to steal midlane from me and being a *****)..

But post screen view.



Riot have outdone themselves, this is so beautiful. I need to get some full screenshots etc of everything tomorrow.

[Obnoxious]

Regards the questions - my girlfriend would definetly know better than any other person besides me that I dislike people who smoke. Knowing some other facts about me would make her realize that the same applies to her. So it's either she respects these basics or does not. Outcome would literally depend on that. It would hurt, no doubt, but these would be two, not one, cases at the same time. Smoking and disrespect.

So... what she wants is irrelevant, respecting what she wants is irrelevant - it's your way or the highway.
Man, your romantic life is gonna be fun to watch... it could make a movie, called "I Told You So."

[Deathmastered]

So... what she wants is irrelevant, respecting what she wants is irrelevant - it's your way or the highway.
Man, your romantic life is gonna be fun to watch... it could make a movie, called "I Told You So."

It is a baseline to me. In this (her) case, this would be irrelevant, as I would be unable to be near her. If we would be talking about most other things a solution or compromise *is that the word in English?* could be found, but this is baseline, it is not discussable in my case.

"I told you so..." probably my most used quote irl. LOL.