Share something pointless about your life!

[Kasumii]

I hate sun, I hate sand, I hate salt water.
Yeah, not a good bet.

So would you be the type who sits on the balcony with a beer and cig while enjoying the show below?

[magaginho]

So would you be the type who sits on the balcony with a beer and cig while enjoying the show below?

Hey, I do that from time to time. It's hilarious.

[Obnoxious]

So would you be the type who sits on the balcony with a beer and cig while enjoying the show below?

No, I'd be the one far away from any people.

[magaginho]

No, I'd be the one far away from any people.

I'm pretty sure that if you were to see what I had to see every night you wouldn't want to stay far away from any people. Trust me on that one. It's all about hitting the right places at the right time. Your mind gets knocked the **** out.

[Obnoxious]

You're seriously underestimating my dislike for dealing with people and their bull****.
There's a club that fills up with hot, easy, drunk chicks literally across the street from home, and my thoughts are of the place going up in blazes so they will shut up and let me sleep.

[magaginho]

You're seriously underestimating my dislike for dealing with people and their bull****.
There's a club that fills up with hot, easy, drunk chicks literally across the street from home, and my thoughts are of the place going up in blazes so they will shut up and let me sleep.

Well yeah but the reality from your country is also different from the reality I'm talking about. It's a completely different environment (been there, I know how it is). I'm the guy that hates almost every single club in Portugal. I love the swedish clubs from that place and I love the environment around them.

Your experience also changes when you have access to other zones of the floors. You have your own quiet and relaxed little world but you still delight your sight. That's the only thing I'm trying to say here. I'm not disregarding your personal taste or opinion. Saying that you hate it without being there and seeing it seems off to me. It's the same thing as eating or drinking something that you've never tasted - If you're going to jump to the conclusion that you hate it right from the start you might be wasting a good thing.

[Obnoxious]

Saying that you hate it without being there and seeing it seems off to me. It's the same thing as eating or drinking something that you've never tasted - If you're going to jump to the conclusion that you hate it right from the start you might be wasting a good thing.

Then you're also forgetting I'm 39. I'm pretty confident I know myself.

[TheSkiller]

what if someone just dislikes night clubs because of the disgisting mainstream music and because its ridden with pathetic people that get drunk/high to have fun and get laid easily with some stranger

[Kasumii]

what if someone just dislikes night clubs because of the disgisting mainstream music and because its ridden with pathetic people that get drunk/high to have fun and get laid easily with some stranger

That's why some people like to get drunk, high, and laid easily at home. Usually doesn't cost you as much either

[magaginho]

Then you're also forgetting I'm 39. I'm pretty confident I know myself.

The age doesn't directly translate to an answer in that regard. I work with people in the industry that are 50+ and make the environment really good for the older audience. However, you're more than free of having your opinion. That's not what I was trying to insinuate with my statement.

what if someone just dislikes night clubs because of the disgisting mainstream music and because its ridden with pathetic people
that get drunk/high to have fun and get laid easily with some stranger

You're the one applying that vision to the way that clubs work. I've worked in nightclubs for more than 10 years now and I can ensure you that I've seen everything. From heavy drugs to no drugs allowed. From entering the club with your own booze and without any sort of booze. From EDM to Country.

You're the one that seeks that kind of environment by entering the wrong clubs. There is a different club for everything out there. I'm forced to see the clubs as a professional place and I have no issues with it whatsoever. I've seen everything, I've laughed at multiple awkward situations and I've cringed at many others. This happens in every job anyways.

That's why some people like to get drunk, high, and laid easily at home. Usually doesn't cost you as much either

Exactly this. That's a problem that comes from society itself and not from the place itself.

[Obnoxious]

The age doesn't directly translate to answer in that regard.

Actually, it does, when I know my tastes, likes and dislikes, and have known them for enough decades for them to be pretty solid for certain things.
While you can say that what Skiller points out "comes from society, not the place"... isn't the point of going to the place the "society" in there? I can have music, booze and one specific woman at my place, without the need for clubbing.

[magaginho]

Actually, it does, when I know my tastes, likes and dislikes, and have known them for enough decades for them to be pretty solid for certain things.

Like I've stated above; You are more than free of having your opinion and your position regarding those clubs. I understand it and I respect it. However, what I usually tell people is that they shouldn't deny a topic as a whole just because you don't like it as it is. You never know how things can go from now on, your life can suffer a major twist and you might start enjoying something that you used to hate. That was from where I was coming from right from the start. Plus, a new experience once in a while, keeps you from being sedentary. At least that's the way I see it. I might be wrong and life might teach me a thing or two but, honestly, I don't want to change under that regard. I like to live my life freely and with new experiences and journeys in mind. We're all different for a reason, right?

While you can say that what Skiller points out "comes from society, not the place"... isn't the point of going to the place the "society" in there? I can have music, booze and one specific woman at my place, without the need for clubbing.

Not really. What moves me to clubs is the fact that I love what I do and I love to entertain people. I don't really care if they're drugging themselves, if they're getting drunk, if they're getting laid. I'm doing my own thing and living in my little word for that moment. Like you mentioned, you go to a place because of the "society" if you're searching for something out of it. If you're going to enjoy yourself or the company of your group of friends or wife you don't care about the others around you. You care about your own enjoyment.

I do agree with you that there are people in the clubs filled with bad intentions. I also agree that some people going around those clubs are all people that are just seeking for attention. But I also consider extremely unfair the generalization that people like to do about some of the workers out there and I think you know exactly what I'm meaning with this.

[Obnoxious]

Like I've stated above; You are more than free of having your opinion and your position regarding those clubs. I understand it and I respect it. However, what I usually tell people is that they shouldn't deny a topic as a whole just because you don't like it as it is. You never know how things can from now on, your life can suffet a major twist and you might start enjoying something that you used to hate. That was from where I was coming from right from the start. Plus, a new experience once in a while, keeps you from being sedentary. At least that's the way I see it.

That's pretty much like saying "you don't know you don't like having a guy up your *** until you try it." I'm not interested in a hairy chest scrubbing my back and don't feel the need to try it to be able to say so.

Not really. What moves me to clubs is the fact that I love what I do and I love to entertain people. I don't really care if they're drugging themselves, if they're getting drunk, if they're getting laid. I'm doing my own thing and living in my little word for that moment. Like you mentioned, you go to a place because of the "society" if you're searching for something out of it. If you're going to enjoy yourself or the company of your group of friends or wife you don't care about the others around you. You care about your own enjoyment.

That's the part you don't seem to understand: my enjoyment lies away from such places.

I do agree with you that there are people in the clubs filled with bad intentions. I also agree that some people going around those clubs are all people that are just seeking for attention. But I also consider extremely unfair the generalization that people like to do about some of the workers out there and I think you know exactly what I'm meaning with this.

So you're saying I should put up with an annoying environment/"society" because of the tiny rare exceptions? Doesn't sounds very enjoyable.

[TheSkiller]

no one cares or talks about the employees unless some moron gets kicked out by a bouncer and he hates him for doing his job or something similar, but otherwise its a job like any else.
its just a hole filled with rats that have nothing to do in their lives worth mentioning and are looking to mate with each other

[magaginho]

That's pretty much like saying "you don't know you don't like having a guy up your *** until you try it." I'm not interested in a hairy chest scrubbing my back and don't feel the need to try it to be able to say so.

Hey, I've seen some people starting with less. Not part of my intentions though.

That's the part you don't seem to understand: my enjoyment lies away from such places.

I get that and I respect that at 100%. I'm just saying that you never know if your thought will be permanent. It's the same thing as weddings; They're planned to be forever but then divorces happen. Possibilities exist for a reason.

So you're saying I should put up with an annoying environment/"society" because of the tiny rare exceptions? Doesn't sounds very enjoyable.

No, not at all. I'm just saying that when people generalize every single person that works in the area, they're failing to understand that there are many people out there with values, education and beliefs. They're just included on the "pack of thrash" that, if you think about it, exists in every single profession. The issue is that clubs are still kinda of a taboo. At least some of them.