Share something pointless about your life!

[Gagha]

It's quite the appropriate age, actually.

It doesn't only depend on the age, but also on the situation the parents are in, wether they are ready or not.
For that, I always think that the older, the better.

I see people who are like 19 and are getting married and having kids. 25+ is just fine.

I hope you realise how terrible such an example is. Having a child at 19 is as bad for him/her as it is for the parents, unless the parents don't bother. But the child is another matter to be taken into consideration. We don't play with human lives.

No. I study female fertility for the past 7 years. I know women/couples want a perfect scenario to have children, however there is really no "perfect' scenario. A woman is best fertile in her 20's, with the healthiest eggs. 30's to 40's you're pushing it for health risks for you and the fetus (as in down syndrome). Not saying you shouldn't have a baby 30-50 years old, but it is just harder/riskier. A lot of women want to wait when they are a lot older, after a career, travel, financial stability but their body isn't in their prime anymore to carry a baby. You need to find a medium between financial stability and your biological clock.

Biologically, it may be the right age to have a child, but it’s not what I was talking about. Being parent implies to fulfill many conditions such as responsability, a good steady situation and being able to give a complete education, which will always be hard even for a 40 years old mother who had already borne children before. Perhaps those you are talking about prefer waiting for the right time to make a child, which isn't so bad. If you see however that you are ready to be a parent, then I can only wish you happiness in your family life. I personally forbade myself to have children before my 30, and would gladly push it further if need be.

[sushikitty]

If you see however that you are ready to be a parent, then I can only wish you happiness in your family life. I personally forbade myself to have children before my 30, and would gladly push it further if need be.

I am beyond ready. You see I've been a mother already for a long long long time now. :) I personally, would rather stick to under 30 having kids while I have the engergy and youth. I am a lot older now and the energy is wasn't like how it was before. (Personally)

[BlueAo]

The air around here is heavy, its hard to breathe.
Can we keep it at something pointless and not go off topic in the of topic section where there's no topic to begin with? D:

[Hugolich]

Sure...

I can't buy the laptop I wanted, because there's some papers that I don't have in order to buy it :/

have to buy an expensive, crappy one in a shopping mall around here...

[Lawl]

The vocals gief me chills

[Mercy]

It doesn't only depend on the age, but also on the situation the parents are in, wether they are ready or not.
For that, I always think that the older, the better.

I honestly couldn't care less if my parents are ready for it or not. That in addition to the fact that they recognize it's my decision, not theirs. So I don't see how that has anything to do with it. But to each their own I guess.
Obviously I initially misunderstood you, but still. Being in my mid-to-late twenties, I know that myself and most other women I know around my age are established enough to where they can have a child if they so choose. I could understand if you're talking about 21-22 as "early twenties". It's going to change person to person anyway. I've had a fairly well established life since before I graduated from high school. It is possible, you know. And women who don't have children in their teens, here in the US, often I see that they are pretty well off.

I am beyond ready. You see I've been a mother already for a long long long time now. :) I personally, would rather stick to under 30 having kids while I have the engergy and youth. I am a lot older now and the energy is wasn't like how it was before. (Personally)

I agree. Especially from the point of view of someone who isn't aging well medically.

The air around here is heavy, its hard to breathe.
Can we keep it at something pointless and not go off topic in the of topic section where there's no topic to begin with? D:

Ultimately, in the scale of the universe, everything we do or say is pointless.
Either way, this thread has been used for whatever sort of discussion since like page 5.

[Euphemism]

I honestly couldn't care less if my parents are ready for it or not. That in addition to the fact that they recognize it's my decision, not theirs. So I don't see how that has anything to do with it. But to each their own I guess.

I think he's talking about the situation of the parents of the baby in question (in addition to age), not the grandparents, lol. For example, financial security (sufficient stable income), living situation (safe child friendly environment not prone to moving) and whatever mental fortitude raising children undoubtedly requires.

[Radvo]

I just want tomorrow to be saturday and the day after that to be the 4th of september so I can go to turkey

Q.Q

[PROJECTyuma]

I am beyond ready. You see I've been a mother already for a long long long time now. :) I personally, would rather stick to under 30 having kids while I have the engergy and youth. I am a lot older now and the energy is wasn't like how it was before. (Personally)

I've been wondering why you people jumped the kids bandwagon so readily, yet you haven't married?
I usderstand not marrying unless you 100% know you're compatible, I would do the same. Yet you made a child so fast out of a previously e-relationship. You posted details about your relationship so frequently that I think everyone here knows every detail about how things are going between you two.
So I must ask, why the hell make a child so? Why before marriage? Why before living together for at the very least a year?
It's not my place to judge either of you but it seems to me (MY PERSONAL, HONEST OPINION PEOPLE, CHILL OUT INB4 YOU HATE ON ME AGAIN) that Ricks lost his judgement for a little there. I can't imagine why would anyone as smart as you guys seem to be make a kid so readily, when you haven't spent at least two years together under the same roof, in the same bed and eating on the same table.
Then again, there are girls MY AGE with kids so maybe I'm tye weird one having these thoughts of marriage and precaution.
What if, upon living together and with a child on the way, you discover that Ricks is not th perfect guy you thought he was? Or the otherwise? It seems that you wanted a child and Ricks went along because he's in love (which is admirable imo).

Ok, I welcome all the hate posts I will get, passive aggressive remarks and attacks on my level of maturity.

[Adeptis]

How do you know it was planned, and not an happy accident? There was absolutely no mention of anything to state that they were actually planning this.

You appear to be passing off your opinions and beliefs far too quickly without a full grasp of the situation.

[Mercy]

I think he's talking about the situation of the parents of the baby in question (in addition to age), not the grandparents, lol. For example, financial security (sufficient stable income), living situation (safe child friendly environment not prone to moving) and whatever mental fortitude raising children undoubtedly requires.

Yes, see the paragraph directly below what you quoted, "lol".

I've been wondering why you people jumped the kids bandwagon so readily, yet you haven't married?
I usderstand not marrying unless you 100% know you're compatible, I would do the same. Yet you made a child so fast out of a previously e-relationship. You posted details about your relationship so frequently that I think everyone here knows every detail about how things are going between you two.
So I must ask, why the hell make a child so? Why before marriage? Why before living together for at the very least a year?
It's not my place to judge either of you but it seems to me (MY PERSONAL, HONEST OPINION PEOPLE, CHILL OUT INB4 YOU HATE ON ME AGAIN) that Ricks lost his judgement for a little there. I can't imagine why would anyone as smart as you guys seem to be make a kid so readily, when you haven't spent at least two years together under the same roof, in the same bed and eating on the same table.
Then again, there are girls MY AGE with kids so maybe I'm tye weird one having these thoughts of marriage and precaution.
What if, upon living together and with a child on the way, you discover that Ricks is not th perfect guy you thought he was? Or the otherwise? It seems that you wanted a child and Ricks went along because he's in love (which is admirable imo).

Ok, I welcome all the hate posts I will get, passive aggressive remarks and attacks on my level of maturity.

You're right. It's not your place to judge them. I share Adeptis' point of view. And in all honesty, I don't think that info is anyone's business. Alli announced it, I am happy for her and Ricks, I wish them the best. But I won't say things as if I could know their relationship better than they do.

[Davelan]

o.o new sub forum! when did this happen?!?!?!

[sushikitty]

Well, I didn't fall off the noob wagon. There is no manual on how to carry a decent relationship. We have a tight grip on our lives. We are late 20's (age technically doesn't have a pull but, we aren't reckless 16 and pregnant). Its not like we just met each other this year and I am not a first time mom. I am aware of peoples ideal thought on how should things be done. But behind closed doors, where no one really know us, who's to say our relationship should be ran a certain way?

[PROJECTyuma]

Well, I didn't fall off the noob wagon. There is no manual on how to carry a decent relationship. We have a tight grip on our lives. We are late 20's (age technically doesn't have a pull but, we aren't reckless 16 and pregnant). Its not like we just met each other this year and I am not a first time mom. I am aware of peoples ideal thought on how should things be done. But behind closed doors, where no one really know us, who's to say our relationship should be ran a certain way?

Not a first time mom? As in, you have another child or you took care of other children as a mother ough to?

Unrelated, I've been drinking 1'5 liters of Monster over the last 4 hours. How likely am I to die of heart failure and what should I include in my death letter??::

[Djokula]

Not a first time mom? As in, you have another child or you took care of other children as a mother ough to?

Unrelated, I've been drinking 1'5 liters of Monster over the last 4 hours. How likely am I to die of heart failure and what should I include in my death letter??::

Your more resistant than that,yuma-chan